Breaking the Boredom- Intimacy wtih your lover should never be anything but #1

There is no doubt SEX/INTIMACY is by far one of the most wonderful, incredible, endorphin providing, emotional and psychological feel good activities of our lives.
In the biological make-up of every human being, Intimacy/Sex is one of the Basic Functions of the human existence. Not only for procreation but also for feeling a sense of security and well being. We not only need to nourish our bodies with food and water, we need to sleep, exercise and to have companionship and love. Many studies have shown that couples who are married or co-habitating are much healthier and happier than their single friends (no matter how much the single folk boast it is soooo great to be single).
Even in our most difficult times we can feel a little better with some intimacy and orgasms, especially with someone we love.

Personally I think the better we know someone and the closer we are with that person the better the sex gets. You know each other, you are comfortable to do and say things that you want (Or hopefully you are!!!). You can explore each others bodies without guilt because this is your partner and your friend.

However, even the closest of people get a sticking point some where along the line. Maybe too many every day problems get their minds all clouded. Even the best of us have to make an effort sometimes to dig ourselves out of the sexual block we can fall into.

I’ve spoken before about how in general people feel that relationships once they are established can go onto auto pilot. This is not true and if you choose to believe that once you are in an established union you don’t have to try anymore or still “court’ your partner then you may run into some intimacy problems or a feeling of dis-connect later in the union.

Everyone desires passion and the feeling of being desired. Even more so by the person they love. It is all too important to express yourself to your partner at all times. Don’t assume that ‘ Well, you know how I feel”. Ok great, maybe they do, but they still want to hear it. They still want to see you make an effort.

So, this brings us to ‘Breaking the Boredom”.
Don’t let the title mis-lead you, I am not suggesting that for one minute that even if you do Missionary every night that you don’t both orgasm and enjoy the sex and I applaud any couple that is having a continuous fulfilling playtime with their lovers.

Don’t forget that every now and then you should mix it up, surprise your lover, do something a little special every now and then, so that you both still get that Adrenaline rush when you know sex is gonna happen

Sex should never be a chore or a part of the relationship you know you have to do it, so lets get it done and get on with more pressing things like doing the dishes or laundry.

WTF!!! There are other things more important in your relationship than making sure the connection between you are your lover is always #1 on the list!
If you have a strong bond and connection with your partner, then everything else in life will be easier to deal with. It’s when you put that emotional security on the bottom of the things that need to be done in the day that everything else seems harder.

Let’s get to work at making your intimacy #1 on the list.

Ask yourself if you really want your relationship to start to crumble and fall apart. If the answer is NO, then its time to take care of business and ‘court’ your lover continuously throughout the relationship.

It’s so simple….
It takes a little effort and thought. Every now and then a nice dinner somewhere different or special. Flowers or chocolates for NO reason. Buying some lingerie or other sexy items you know he would like and just wearing it out of the blue when he comes home to get his motor running. A trip out of town or stay in a hotel for a night or weekend away from your family so you can really re-connect and be super naughty.

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THE SCENARIO……

You know your lover well, you know what they like and don’t like (if this is not true, then its time for you to start to get to know your lover!).
So, on the down low, you find out their schedule and then you aline it with yours. You want to be totally alone with them and do Oh so Naughty things
Time is a problem, you both have jobs, kids, and other obligations but you find a weekend that you both have a day/night off and then you go about arranging someone to take care of the kids.

After a little research on the internet you find a cozy little hotel not too far of a drive from home but far enough away that you can’t be tempted to go check on things.
It’s been a while since you dressed up in a sexy outfit for him and remember how hot he would get on your honey moon when you wore bikini’s for the beach.

You find a little Sex store that carries lingerie and swimsuits, Yeah, the kind STRIPPERS WEAR!! Not the full back boring family friendly stuff that ‘Wal-Whateva’ carries. You pick a color you know he will like and find some super sexy heels that might just make this bikini look even better on you!
Then you book the hotel room and tell your man that you have some things you need fixing at the home and to make sure he keeps “that day/night’ free because you really need for him to help you.
On that day you pop out for ‘groceries’ but really drive to the hotel to set the mood and pre-check in.
You make sure you have the right music, booze, candles, massage oil, toys, the bikini and the slutty heels you are going to be wearing.

Once everything is in place in the hotel then you grab the kids and take them to the in-laws or whomever.
It’s now late afternoon and you tell your man that you need help picking things up and he needs to come with you, and you are driving.
BE CREATIVE… Even if you don’t tell lies, use your imagination to get him out of the house, into the car and off to your destination..

Once you arrive outside the hotel you some how get him to go in with you, even at this point you tell him you have a surprise for him.
Once inside, he will get the point. Booze, candles, music…. You tell him to relax on the bed, while you get comfortable. You slip into your bikini and slutty heels and doll up your hair and makeup..

You slink into the room, all sexy and feeling naughty and offer him a drink. You slowly pour the drink, bending over and teasing him in your outfit.
You occasionally give him a little look back while pouring the drink and tell him to get undressed.
With two drinks in hand you slowly walk over to him, using your sexiest, super vixen look you can muster up.
You hand him the drink and ask if he would like a nice massage to loosen him up.
He is laying on the bed, face down and you warm the oil in your hand first then place your hand on his body. Slowly but firmly rubbing his body, his shoulders and back, not speaking, just the music playing softly in the background.
You get into the rhythm of the massage, breathing and stroking him being as sensual as you can.
Every now and then you let your breasts rub up against his back and down to his ass.
Your hands run down his spine, and to his ass cheeks, firmly kneading and massaging them.
Every now and then you plant little kisses on his skin, in between stroking and rubbing him everywhere. You ask if he would like to turn over, and of course he would.
As he lays in front of you and you rub his chest and stomach for a while, you stop to rub some oil slowly on yourself, giving him a little show. Your breasts fall out of the bikini top… OOOPs.. and then you start to use your boobs to rub him all over. As your nipples harden, you run them over his cock, letting him know you are turned on.
You pull your bikini bottom to one side to reveal your pussy. Your oily hands rub your pussy and clit and he is visually aroused. Seeing his hard cock in front of you just makes you want to lick it and suck it. So, you take hold of his cock and start to stroke it with one hand and fondle his balls with the other. His veins swell and his cock is engorged and ready for some action. You run your wet tongue up and down his cock and balls, and then slip it into your warm, wet mouth. As you suck his cock your hands continue to fondle and caress his balls and cock. Your pussy is so wet from seeing how aroused your lover is. You reach down and touch your pussy to find she is dripping. You climb on top of him and slowly lower your cunt onto his hard man meat. Your tits are still out of the top and bobbing back and forth over his face as your pussy masturbates his dick. He grabs your tits and starts to squeeze and suck on them, making your pussy even more wet from the extra stimulation. His cock is penetrating you so deep you start to ooze and squirt all over it, moaning and quivering. You want more, hard, deeper, faster…
So you raise up and then bend over with your ass high in the air, reach back and spread your ass cheeks to let him know you want him to fuck you. “I want your hard fucking cock deep in my wet pussy hole baby”, you tell him…
He grabs your ass cheeks and spreads them wide, aiming his cock for your pink, wet twat hole. As it sinks into your hole, you moan and groan with such pleasure. “Fuck your cock feels so good”, I want it deep baby, fuck me hard, make me scream”.
He sinks that hard man meat into your sopping wet twat, pounding you and fucking you like you both just met.
“Oh, I want it harder, give me every inch of that fucking cock”, you scream…
You reach under neath and start to rub your swollen clit, as he pounds your cunt. You can feel his cock swell as his nuts fill with cum, ready to explode wherever he wants. You rub your clit as hard as you can, wanting to cum as he orgasms.
You can feel it building in his cock as his meat throbs and pulsates. “Yes, fuck me hard baby, fuck that fucking cunt”! You tell him. “I want you to fuck that cunt hole until you squirt every drop of your jizz in your cunt, on my cunt, wherever you want it baby”.
You reach back again spreading your asshole and pussy, so he knows that when he is ready to cum he can just unload that hot, sticky cum all over your pussy hole and asshole. He lets out a deep groan as he pulls it from you and starts to shoot his load on your open wet holes.
You both collapse in a heap of sweat and body fluids….
“Well, we have the hotel and I’ve cleared our schedule so we can do this all night long”, you gush with excitement.

Now, just taking the time to arrange a surprise SEXY ENCOUNTER with your lover, wasn’t that worth it and gives you both something to think about for some time until the next little Intimate Encounter you or he arranges.

Break The Boredom, Keep the Intimacy alive by never putting your relationship on Auto- pilot.

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Two is great, but IS Three a crowd or just MORE fun?

Throughout our lives or relationships our desires can change and we have to accept that not everything stays the same.

At one point or another almost everyone has thought about having a three-some.
How someone configures that changes from person to person depending on what their sexual preferences are.
The average person assumes every guy wants two chicks at once but that is not always the case, we all have very clear idea’s of what we desire and they are not always that obvious to everyone else.

Your fantasy 3 way may depend on whether you are a Voyeur or an exhibitionist.

Voyeurism; If you like to watch people you may desire seeing your partner engaging in sex with someone else whether it is the same sex as you or the same sex as them. Watching other people having sexual pleasure, especially when one of those people is someone close to you may heighten the excitement even more for the Voyeur. The Voyeur doesn’t felt left out, they are included by being able to watch at close quarters at the other people engaging in the sex acts.

Exhibitionism: When a person seeks attention, a compulsion to show genitals to others. Getting attention while being naked, having sex or showing genitals causes an Exhibitionist to obtain sexual gratification. Exhibitionist are stimulated and aroused by others watching them.

If you are in a relationship and your partner suggests a 3-way you may be confused or hurt by their desire to include another person in your sex life.
However, you may want to just hear them out. It is a natural first instinct to feel some type of rejection or insecurity but that is not always the case, it doesn’t mean your lover is bored of you but we still have fantasies and desires even though we may have a fantastic sexual relationship with our partner.

Your partner may have fantasies of seeing YOU pleasured more than the fact they want to have sex with someone else. Or they may just be aroused by the idea of having sex with you and someone being there to see them have sex.

This is not to rule out the possibility that your lover MAY just want some added excitement and they think they can get this from adding another person.
If this is the case and it concerns you, then talk to your partner and perhaps suggest some other methods of adding spice before adding another person. Whether its sex toys, role play, maybe visiting a Swing club so you can both have sex with each other but in a room of other people.

Try not to take this information and think your relationship is over. That isn’t necessarily the case, we naturally become curious and idea’s get into our heads. If the idea gets stuck in someones head and they start obsessing about it, they may have the over whelming urge to try it out. It is far more dangerous to your relationship to completely deny your partner the opportunity of having some of their fantasies met. Usually people want what they can’t have, so to tell them they CANNOT have it will make the urge possibly more intense and they might find their fantasy fulfilled else where if you don’t at least meet them half way on their desires.

So in short, the best method of having the healthiest relationship possible is to listen to your lover and try to accommodate them in which ever way you can. Being understanding and not judging their thoughts and desires will make for a happier, healthier union than to shoot them down.

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The Fantasy….

Your guy has brought up in passing several times the idea of a 3 way. You kinda thought he was kidding but now that you’ve heard it a few times you are starting to believe it may be what he wants.
You have wondered to yourself what kind of 3 way, so you throw it out. “Oh yeah, and if you got your wish.. How would that play out?”. You ask..

“Oh, you and some other chick that you find hot, do a little show for me while I watch for a while and then maybe you can give me a little attention if you are into the idea”, he confesses.

You think about it for a while and then wonder how the heck you will find another chick, and a chick that isn’t gonna be more interested in your guy than you. Most the time people worry that their lover is gonna be more attracted to the other implant so they get worried about even getting involved in this kinda of thing.
It’s his birthday soon and you had been thinking about what to get him…. What if you hire an escort for an hour to come and make this fantasy happen and then at least you know after an hour this other woman is leaving and you can be pretty safe!!
It starts to sound like a great idea to you so you go on a search for hiring a girl for this.
It takes quite a bit of research but you come up with what you think is the perfect girl and perfect situation.
The young ladies ad says she Loves both Men and Woman and is a ‘girl-friend’ experience. You don’t fully understand that but it sounds about right.

His birthday comes and you tell him you have a special surprise for him.
After sitting him down in a chair, handing him his favorite drink you go off and get dressed into a very sexy out fit that you know he will like.
As he sits in his chair with his drink in hand you strut into the room looking all slutty and horny. His face lights up and you strut over their wiggling and gyrating in front of him, giving him a mini lap dance, but with deep kisses and then some very sloppy, wet head for him…
As you are entertaining and arousing him, the door bell rings. He looks a bit “put out” thinking someone is going to interrupt his spectacular birthday treat.
You leave to go to the door and walk back in with this gorgeous, sexy stranger. He just sits there saying nothing. You tell him you have invited a friend for a little while and would he like to sit and watch for a moment or two.
He nods, but with a lot of excitement in his face.
The young lady starts to get undressed, and rub her body up against yours. Your nipples rub together and get very hard, both of you reach down and rub each others pussies.
The girl/girl show moves to the floor right in front of your man.
In a very sexy 69, you and the sexy gal both pleasure each other orally. Your pussy is so wet from her sexy mouth, you spread your legs wider and reach down to spread open your pussy lips wider so her tongue can get into your pink slit and really get your wetter.
As your pussy swells and gets even more juicy you urge your man to come and slip his cock into your pussy and interchange between your pussy and her mouth.
He puts his cock into the girls mouth at first to get it (even) harder than it is…
She sucks and licks his dick, and spits on it right before telling him to fuck your pussy.
His cock is so hard and he pushes it into your cunt nice and deep. While his cock is fucking your wet hole, her tongue is licking your clit and licking his cock as well.
Your tongue is tongue fucking her wet cunt hole, and she grinds her pussy onto your mouth, obviously enjoying your oral talents.
After you have been fucked for a while, you change positions. You tell your man to lie down on his back and then you ask the girl to straddle his face with her pussy, so he can taste her while you fuck his cock.
She sits down on his face and spreads her juicy pussy across his mouth. Meanwhile, you are stroking his hard cock and then slowly ease your pussy down onto it, taking in every inch of his manhood. As you bounce hard up and down on his cock, the girl reaches over and squeezes your tits hard. You keep fucking his cock until you squirt all over him.
His cock is throbbing, you know he wants to shoot his load too.
You take out a condom and slip it on his cock. You tell the other girl to bend over and you spread her pussy and ass cheeks, telling him to take her from behind. His eyes are as big as you have ever seen them, as he slides his hard man meat into this young hotties wet cunt hole.
As he fucks her pussy, you wiggle underneath her so you can lick his balls, and lick his cock as it slips in and out of her.
while you are underneath there, you reach up and spread her ass and pussy so he can get a good look, and your tongue explores his genitals.
He fucks as long as he can before he screams out he has to come…
You come up and as he pulls out of the girl, you pull off the condom and jerk his cock off into your mouth, taking in all of his hot, sticky semen.

Any drops that splattered on the young lady, you lick off.
As he goes to the bathroom you discretely lose the girl….

He comes back and you suggest a nice, long, relaxing massage for him to end this amazing evening.
He eventually falls into a very deep, relaxing sleep… Very happy and very stimulated.

You are happy that you arranged this for him, it will be a night you both won’t forget any time soon…. And hey, your birthday is coming up soon right???

Happy Adventures in SexVille
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Power Play- who is really the BOSS in the Bedroom?

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Power Play-Who is really the BOSS IN THE BEDROOM?
Whether you are really the boss or not, sometimes you either want to be in charge or give up your power every now and then….. Well, in the bedroom at least.
The creature with the loudest roar isn’t always the meanest or toughest in the jungle.
Sometimes that Roar is just there to ward off possible threats by bluffing.
Power exchange is age long and just plain basic Human Nature.
It can be exciting and thrilling to pretend to be in charge and demand or instruct your lover to do as you wish.
“A little” resistance from your partner could be fun, even perhaps tying them up with your neck tie to the bed while seducing and controlling them further.
Who wants Vanilla Sex all the time, it serves a purpose, it gets the job done but it doesn’t insight the kind of adrenaline you get when you are faced with the unknown. Role-Playing is a fun, erotic, generally safe way for couples to explore their sexuality..
So many role you can take on, whether you are a Cop arresting your partner and performing a “strip-Search’ and cavity search or Doctor/patient. It goes on and on, so many erotic, fun games you can play with your lover.

Today I wanted to play WHO’S THE BOSS and not with Tony Danza!

After a long tense day my lover had called and said they were coming over. I was in the mood for a little playful power play and I wasn’t going to warn my lover what I had in mind.
He knew better than to not imagine what was in store for him. Depending on what I’ve done in the day my imagination can run wild.

I went to my closet and found a skin tight black skirt and tight white, business blouse complete with Red tie.
I took from my draw some Lacey Black Lingerie, with garter-belt and stockings. I slipped on my silk stockings one dainty foot at a time, hooked them to my garter belt, and put on the bra and panty. I got into the skin tight business skirt and shirt and fixed my tie.
I pinned my hair up a little to really bring him the business look, and painted my full lips with a deep, rich, lip color.

My lover arrived and I opened the door, the buttons were undone deep into my cleavage, showing my full breasts mounted on the lacy bra.

His eyes grew large and he held back a smile. I invited him in and instructed him to go to the bedroom. When he got to the bedroom I commanded that he get undressed until he was completely naked, which of course he did.
I then told him to get on the bed and take the oil on the side table and stroke his cock for me. He complied.
He rubbed the oil all over his cock, and his cock swelled and grew quickly. I told him to massage it into his balls as well and then bend over so I could inspect him. He reluctantly bent over but fulfilled my request any way.
I took some oil and started to rub the warm oil up and down his ‘taint’ and massage it into his balls. I reached down and grabbed his hard cock and stroked it while I placed my mouth on his asshole. It was quite humiliating for him to be bent over in this ‘bitch’ position and several times he tried to rise out of it but I quickly ‘demanded’ he return to his bitch position or I would Punish him in ways he will not forget.
His cock was fully erect and his asshole looks sweet. I put my big lips on his asshole and my tongue searched his sweet hole. His body tense, he fought how good it felt having me use his body like my plaything, meanwhile uncomfortable at the position he had taken for me.
My tongue wandered exploring his anus, and testicles, I licked up and down his cock, teasing him.
I told him to flip over and lie on his back.
He lay in front of me, naked and hard. I slowly began to undress. Taking off my tie first, then unbuttoning my shirt, and slipping out of my tight skirt.
I pulled my panty over to the side and then mounted his face. I pushed my pussy onto his mouth and demanded he tongue fuck my hole. His tongue sank deep into my cunt hole and I grinded my hole on his mouth until I squirted into his mouth.
I raised up my sopping wet twat and slipped it down onto his hard shaft.
I lowered my pussy down on his cock his I my pubic bone hit his. He was balls deep in my soaking, wet pussy hole. I grabbed his wrists and held him down as I fucked his cock.
I put my mouth on his and licked his tongue, tasting him from every hole and angle. I continued to fuck his cock with my pussy hole, as I dangled my huge tits in his face. His tongue flicked out of his mouth wanting to lick my tits. I pushed a nipple into his mouth, telling him to suck on my tits while I milked his dick with my cunt. As he sucked on my tit, it sent tingles down my body to my pussy hole. My pussy was so wet, and I was as aroused as I have ever been.
I de-mounted him and bent over, I was so turned on I wanted his cock in my asshole.
I reached back and stretched my ass cheeks and fingering my asshole to ready it for his huge cock.
I looked back at him and taunted him to show me what a big, strong man he was. It was time to teach this bossy bitch that you are the Alpha dog!

He leaned over spat on my asshole, and then pushed his cock up against my A hole.
I held my breath in anticipation…… Nothing came right away…
Then he grabbed me threw me over, and pinned me down. Quickly he took my tie and tied my wrists to the bed. then he found something to tie my legs open on the bed and blind fold me.
I was so mad! I had wanted that fucking cock, and now he does this shit!
He changed his demeanor and told him he was now in control. he was going to do whatever he wanted with my body.
He then put a piece of tape over my mouth so I couldn’t talk. He proceeded to pinch, finger, touch, grope and squeeze every part of my body. My tits, my pussy, asshole, he explored them all. He took out some of my dildos from my draw and rubbed oil all over my body so every inch of me was slick and covered in hot oil. He penetrated my pussy and asshole with the dildo’s taunting me as he did. He spread my holes and examined them, stretching them open, putting his tongue inside of them, then his fingers or cock or sex toy. He fucked my pussy and asshole then shot his cum deep in my asshole, then stretching it open and letting it drip out and then immediately pushing them cum back into my hole with his finger.
He took my Hatachi wand out of the draw of my bedside table and started to stimulate me again, he put the wand on my clit while rubbing my pussy hole with his fingers. In seconds I came so hard it almost hurt, but he didn’t stop! He continued to make me come, again and again and again…..
My pussy ached as it kept pumping and pumping, cumming and cumming.
He started to stroke his cock again, and told me how he was going to cum up inside my pussy hole, at this point I longed to feel his cock inside of my cum drained pussy hole.
He slipped his rock hard cock inside of my cunt and fucked it hard as he could, I could feel his cock throbbing, and then as he shot his hot load inside of me… He pulled his cock out of me and I could feel the cum dripping out and running down my ass crack and thighs. I lay there, blind folded and tied to the bed, plus gagged!
I heard nothing, it seemed he left. I was shocked, mad, a bit scared but helpless….

I waited and waited, then I felt him again. fingering my asshole and pussy, fingering it really hard, making me squirt and shoot out of my hole. He then began rubbing more oil on my huge tits, then I felt him put his cock between them and fuck them, squeezing them hard around his cock. Every now and then he would slap his hard cock on my nipples and all over my tits, then go back to fucking them.
A quick yank and he had removed the tape from my mouth, but just as I tried to speak he shoved his cock into my mouth, gagging me again. He fucked my mouth, and throat and every now and then pulling it out to slap me across the face with it, then before I could speak he gagged me with his cock again.
His cock was so swollen and I could barely breath while he fucked my face without concern. He unleashed his hot, thick jizz into my throat and mouth and all over my face. He continued all night long to fucked my holes, cuming again and again in every hole until he was completely drained and me also as he forced me to orgasm over and over, while all the while he kept me his fuck doll, tied up and gagged, helpless and vulnerable.

Once he released me I was too tired to be mad and I was fully satisfied and drained of cum..
I must admit I did plan on being THE BOSS, but I admired his spunk in letting me have my way for a while, but finally showing me who really is BOSS….

A lesson I am happy to learn
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Sexual Attraction and How to HAVE BETTER SEX

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BETTER SEX

If you have ever wondered why your SEX life has gone to the Dogs or you just can’t get that “loving Feeling” back perhaps you need to do your homework a little more.
Even the act of attempting to find out how to have better sex will create better Sex. One of the Main Methods of having and attaining Better SEX is MORE SEX!
The More SEX you have with your ‘WILLING’ partner, the more all those ‘FEEL GOOD’ Hormones and endorphins release into your brain giving you a sense of well being and happiness. Well yes, those NATURAL, ORGANIC ‘HIGHS’ are Addictive because we want to feel good again. So the more you have SEX with your lover, the more connected and intimate you become with your lover. Just do not forget to be an EQUAL OPPORTUNITY LOVER. ‘GIVE AND TAKE’ is the name of the game to have the best possible love making ever. Be prepared to satisfy your lover and they will want to satisfy you in return. However, there are other problems that can occur. Perhaps your partner has ANORGASMIA -which is the Inability to reach orgasm. There are exercises and techniques to over come this. (listed below).
This article will let you know how to reach your SEXUAL GOALS and heighten the ability to reach the Ultimate Orgasms.
Further Articles will also be posted soon.

If YOU want to have amazing SEX, be educated and prepared to give as much as you take. Don’t forget just because you are a giver and will spend hours GIVING PLEASURE that doesn’t mean your lover is just a TAKER. They may get frustrated if you do not allow them to give back and although you can’t understand why they don’t think you are the greatest lover ever, it might be because it also SELFISH to not allow your partner to LOVE you back and explore your body as they wish.

Psychology is everything when you are dealing with people, so THINK because you STINK (being a bad lover)!

GOOD LUCK and feel free to ASK advice.
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STAGES OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION-

There are three distinct types or stages of “love”:
1-Lust, or erotic passion
2-Attraction, or romantic passion
3-Attachment, or commitment (OXYTOCIN-BONDING, The more Sex with that partner the more you bond, VASOPRESSIN – An antiduretic Hormone along with OXYTOCIN interfere with Dopamine and Norepinephrine, which is why passionate love fades as attachment grows).
Endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, also play a key role in long-term relationships. They produce a general sense of well-being, including feeling soothed, peaceful and secure. Like dopamine and norepinephrine, endorphins are released during sex; and induce a “drug-like dependency.”

*Sexologist John Money draws the line between love and lust in this way: “Love exists above the belt, lust below. Love is lyrical. Lust is lewd.”
Pheromones, looks and our own learned predispositions for what we look for in a mate play an important role in whom we lust after, as well. Without lust, we might never find that special someone. But, while lust keeps us “looking around,” it is our desire for romance that leads us to attraction.

*ATTRACTION-

*ROMANTIC PASSION- overwhelming preoccupation and drive is part of our biology. Researchers say this is due to the dopamine, norepinephrine and phenylethylamine we’re releasing. Dopamine is thought to be the “pleasure chemical,” producing a feeling of bliss. Norepinephrine is similar to adrenaline and produces the racing heart and excitement.
functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) Scans showed increased BLOOD flow in areas of the brain with high concentrations of receptors for dopamine — associated with states of euphoria, craving and addiction. People in this love stage are noted to have lower levels of Serotonin which is found in people with OCD, explaining why they OBSESS about their partner and involve themselves in little else.

*Studies have shown that passionate love fades quickly and is nearly gone after two or three years. The chemicals responsible for “that loving’ feeling” (adrenaline, dopamine, norepinephrine, phenylethylamine, etc.) dwindle.

*YOU MAY WONDER- Why has he or she changed. Actually, your partner probably hasn’t changed at all; it’s just that you’re now able to see him or her rationally, rather than through the blinding HORMONES of infatuation and passionate love. At this stage, the relationship is either strong enough to endure, or the relationship ends.

*If the relationship can ENDURE, other chemicals kick in. Endorphins still provide a sense of well being and security. Additionally, OXYTOCIN is still released during sex and produce feelings of Satisfaction. Vasopressin also continues to play a role in attachment.
THIS IS WHY WHEN COUPLES FEEL THEY ARE GROWING APART, THEY NEED TO HAVE MORE INTIMACY WITH EACH OTHER TO STRENGTHEN THEIR DWINDLING BOND!!!!

Ways to create more INTIMACY!

**BREATHE WITH YOUR PARTNER WHILE CLOSING EYES AND BE STILL AND LOOK AT YOUR PARTNER

**TOUCH OR MASSAGE YOUR PARTNER

**KISS YOUR PARTNER
The Romans even came up with three different categories for kissing:
• Osculum was a kiss on the cheek
• Basium was a kiss on the lips
• Savolium was a deep kiss
HORMONES RELEASED DURING KISSING.
• Oxytocin, which helps people develop feelings of attachment, devotion and affection for one another
• Dopamine, which plays a role in the brain’s processing of emotions, pleasure and pain
• Serotonin, which affects a person’s mood and feelings
• Adrenaline, which increases HEART Rate and plays a role in your body’s fight-or-flight response
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**SMELL

**TASTE

** LAUGHTER/HAVING FUN

**GIVING & RECEIVING PLEASURE

**SOUNDS

**MOVEMENT OR INCREASING BLOOD FLOW.

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TWO TYPES OF ORGASM IN A FEMALE.
1.CLITORAL ORGASM
2. VAGINAL ORGASM
The nerves that are involved in the two different pelvic areas send different responses to the Brain..

• hypogastric nerve – transmits from the Uterus and CERVIX in women and from the PROSTATE in men
• pelvic nerve – transmits from the VAGINA and cervix in women and from the rectum in both sexes
• pudendal nerve – transmits from the clitoris in women and from the scrotum and penis in men
• vagus nerve – transmits from the cervix, uterus and vagina

SO DURING FOREPLAY OR SEX, IT IS IMPORTANT TO STIMULATE BOTH THE CLITORIS AND VAGINA TO CREATE THE ULTIMATE PLEASURE IN YOUR PARTNER.
A GOOD EXAMPLE WOULD BE THAT YOU WOULD NOT JUST WANT YOUR LOVER TO TOUCH YOUR SCROTUM AND FORGET YOUR PENIS… You probably prefer both stimulated.

EVEN PEOPLE WITH SPINAL INJURIES OR PARAPLEGICS CAN REACH ORGASM, EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE PROBABLY TOLD THEY COULD NOT.

VAGUS nerve in women BYPASSES THE SPINAL CORD, therefore, with DEEP VAGINAL or Cervical STIMULATION, a women could reach orgasm, just not a CLITORAL ORGASM.

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Some of the brain areas impacted by pleasure include:
• amygdala – regulates emotions
• nucleus accumbens – controls the release of dopamine
• ventral tegmental area (VTA) – actually releases the dopamine
• cerebellum – controls MUSCLE Function
• pituitary gland – releases beta-endorphins, which decrease PAIN oxytocin, which increases feelings of trust; and vasopressin, which increases bonding
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***DURING AN ORGASM In both sexes, the brain region behind the left eye, called the lateral orbitofrontal cortex, shuts down during orgasm. “It’s the seat of reason and behavioral control. But when you have an orgasm, you lose control” Dr. Gert Holstege stated that the brain during an orgasm looks much like the brain of a person taking heroin.

***ALL OF THIS EXPLAINS WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE SEX ADDICTS. These feelings are replicating feelings of EUPHORIA (feeling of happiness or pleasure and well being) similar to Drugs.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN DURING SEX-
When a woman has sex, a part of the brain stem called the periaqueductal gray (PAG) is activated. The PAG controls the “flight or fight” response. Women’s brains also showed decreased activity in the amygdala and hippocampus, which deal with Fear & anxiety. The team theorized that these differences existed because women have more of a need to feel safe and relaxed in order to enjoy sex. In addition, the area of the CORTEX associated with pain was activated to show the difference between pain and pleasure.

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ANORGASMIA (the inability to reach orgasm)

SSRIs, or selective seratonin reuptake inhibitors- zoloft, pail, celexa, anxiety drugs. DECREASE THE PRODUCTION OF DOPAMINE. the neurotransmitter that provides pleasurable feelings.

Some studies show that women with ANORGASMIA when giving an MRI of the Brain, showed that the brain actually thinks it is constantly receiving pleasure therefore she cannot reach a state of being that will in fact give her an Orgasm… READING EROTICA can exercise the brain to calm down and act to activity in a different way.

RESEARCH shows that people can infect have Orgasms from being touched in other area’s of the body.

Touching the nipples sends the same messages to the brain as being touched on the genitals. Sometimes also in hands and feet.
HENSE FOOT FETISH and other ‘fetishes’ which are actually completely normal nerve responses but less talked about or even examined or incorporated into sex play…

APHRODISIACS- elements that evoke or stimulate sexual desire.
Foods, drugs (viagra) , scents

TESTOSTERONE in both men and women.

Women (and men) with a higher sex drive have more TESTOSTERONE than a woman or man with Low sex drive.

How it works
A chain reaction begins when something external that we encounter that stimulates us.
A signal is sent from the LIMBIC LOBE of the BRAIN, via the Nervous system to the PELVIC REGION.
These signals tell the blood vessels to dilate. This creates and ERECTION, in both men and women. Penis for a man and clitoris and vaginal region.

Once the ERECTION is produced then the VESSELS CLOSE to maintain the BLOOD in that region. the Erection is accompanied by rapid heart rate. The brain released NOREPINEPHRINE, DOPAMINE, NEUROTRANSMITTERS to tell our bodies this is GOOD!

Alcohol and MARIJUANA also create or allow the desire to have sex.

SOME EXAMPLES OF APHRODISIAC’S.

ANISEED- has ESTROGENIC COMPOUNDS (female hormones) which induce similar effects to testosterone.

ASPARAGUS- high in VITAMIN B known as folate that aids in increasing production of HISTAMINE. Histamine is important for healthy sex drive. Histamine is an organic compound that acts as a NEUROTRANSMITTER. Histamine allows the flow of fluids in the capillaries.

BASIL- known to stimulate sex drive and fertility and a sense of well being. The Scent of Basil is said to drive men wild.

CARDAMOM- Aromatic Spice. Its a powerful Aphrodisiac and can be beneficial in treating IMPOTENCE. Its high in Cineole, which can increase BLOOD FLOW in area’s that it is applied.

CHOCOLATE- Cacao tree is called the FOOD OF THE GODS. Chocolate phenylethylamine and serotonin, which are both “feel good” chemicals. chocolate may also contain substances that have the same effect on the brain as marijuana. The substance is a neurotransmitter called anandamide. The amount of anandamide in chocolate is not enough to get a person “high” like marijuana, but it could be enough to contribute to the good feelings that serotonin and phenylethylamine produce.

CHILI PEPPERS- Eating chili peppers generates physiological responses in our bodies (e.g., sweating, increased heart rate and circulation) that are similar to those experienced when having sex.

Garlic
Long ago, Tibetan monks were not allowed to enter the monastery if they had been eating garlic because of its reputation for stirring up passions. Garlic increases circulation.

LICORICE- was found that the smell of black licorice increased the blood flow to the penis by 13 percent. When combined with the smell of doughnuts, that percentage jumped to 32.

Nutmeg
In ancient China, women prized nutmeg an aphrodisiac, and researchers have found it to increase mating behaviors in mice. There is no evidence to prove the same happens in humans. In quantity, nutmeg can produce a hallucinogenic effect.
MACA. Known as Peru’s Natural VIAGRA. Natural root that enhances strength, stamina, energy, fertility and libido.
Oysters
­Romans documented oysters as aphrodisiacs in the second century A.D. They are known to be high in zinc, which has been associated with improving sexual potency in men. (An additional hypothesis is that the oyster resembles the female genitals.) Recently, mussels, clams and oysters have been found to contain D-aspartic acid and NMDA (N-methyl-D-aspartate) compounds may be effective in releasing sex hormones like testosterone and estrogen.
Papaya
Papaya (like aniseed) is estrogenic, meaning it has compounds that act as the female hormone estrogen. It has been used as a folk remedy in promoting menstruation and milk production, facilitating childbirth and increasing the female libido.
Pine nuts
People have been using pine nuts to stimulate the libido since Medieval times. Like oysters, they too are high in zinc. Pine nuts have been used for centuries to make up love potions. The Arabian medical scholar Galen recommended eating one hundred pine nuts before going to bed.
PUMPKIN SEEDS- High in ZINC essential for sperm production and testosterone in men. Loaded with libido Vitamins an dmin
Water Melon-
can have a Viagra effect on blood vessels throughout the body and may increase libido. contains citrulline amino acid. Citruline is good for the cardiovascular system and helps relax the blood vessels that increase sex drive.

Aphrodisiac Supplements
Arginine
Arginine is an amino acid found in meat, nuts, eggs, coconut milk and cheese. It forms nitric oxide in the body, which increases blood flow to the genitals. Arginine, when combined with other supplements, is said to enhance sexual desire in women.
Epimedium
According to pharmacognosist Albert Leung, Ph.D., and Arkansas herbalist Steven Foster, the epimedium herb has been proven to improve the sexual function of male animals in experiments. It acts somewhat as an androgen (sex hormone) and might stimulate sexual desire in women who are androgen-deficient.
Fennel
Fennel is reported to increase the libido of both male and female rats. Fennel has compounds that mimic the female hormone estrogen. However, in doses greater than about a teaspoon, it can be toxic!
Ginseng
Ginseng is another long-touted aphrodisiac. Recently, the Journal of Urology reported, “the Mean International Index of Erectile Function scores were significantly higher in patients treated with Korean red ginseng than in those who received placebo.” In animal studies, ingesting ginseng doesn’t appear to have an immediate effect on testosterone levels, but the ginseng may trigger other mechanisms that lead to increased performance and libido.
Rhino horn
Rhino horn is primarily fibrous tissue with fairly large amounts of calcium and phosphorus. Since low levels of these minerals can lead to weakness and general fatigue, taking large doses of these elements could increase stamina if levels were low to begin with. It’s understandable, then, how it could have historically appeared to be an aphrodisiac (in addition to its resemblance to an erect penis). People who didn’t have deficiencies of those minerals wouldn’t have seen the same affect.
Spanish fly
Probably one of the most famous aphrodisiacs is Spanish fly. It is made from a beetle that secretes an acid-like juice, called cantharidin, from its leg joints when threatened. Because it would be more difficult to remove just the juice, the entire beetle is dried and crushed to produce the powder. When Spanish fly powder is ingested, the body excretes the cantharidin in the urine. This causes intense irritation and burning in the urogenital tract, which then leads to itching and swelling of the genitals. This swelling and burning was once assumed to be sexual arousal and led to the belief that Spanish fly had aphrodisiac qualities. But cantharidin is highly toxic. The kidneys suffer inflammation as well and can be permanently damaged. Spanish fly can cause severe gastrointestinal disturbances, convulsions and even death.
Yohimbe
Yohimbe is used both as an herbal aphrodisiac and in a prescription drug used for erectile dysfunction in men. It comes from bark stripped from a West African evergreen tree. Yohimbine, the primary active ingredient of yohimbe, blocks alpha-2 adrenergic receptors and increases dilation of blood vessels, which are both involved in achieving and maintaining an erection. The herbal form of yohimbe can be dangerous if taken in the wrong quantities.

SCENTS

Scents
Scents have a powerful affect when it comes to romance. The memory of a scent of a romantic partner can stay with us long after the romance is gone — so much so that when we run across the scent years later, we’re immediately taken back with a flood of feelings and memories. Does that mean that scent is an aphrodisiac?
STUDIES show that the smell of Lavender and Pumpkin Pie increased blood flow by 40 %. And the smell of Licorce combined with the scent of CUCUMBER created the greatest increase in blood flow to the vagina.

SOUNDS
MUSIC- Music can set the mood or destroy the mood. The effective element of music is the memory we associate with it. It is wise to find out what music your sexual partner has a fondness for in a romantic/sensual/stimulating way.

EXERCISE- Not only is it good for your health but its GREAT for your sex life. . According to Discovery Health, the aphrodisiac qualities of exercise are associated with the endorphins that are released in the brain with vigorous activity — like the runner’s high. Endorphins are those “feel good” chemicals. Other aphrodisiac affects of exercise come from exercises that increase blood flow to the genitals. These exercises position the body in various ways that stimulate blood flow and can improve sexual abilities and desire.
EXERCISE AND BUILDING MUSCLE usually increases TESTOSTERONE levels. which means higher sex drive!

Whether they work or not, even if the effects of these aphrodisiacs are a PLACEBO EFFECT. Studies show that just by THINKING about these things and ways to enhance sex WORK! Just the effort you are putting in to make your sex life better means it will be better.

SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE
“Planting a seed” or “Power of Suggestion” comes to mind here. If you gently but repetitively ‘suggest’ something over time it may become so. However, the most effective way of getting what you want is to make someone believe it was their idea all along. REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY works, along with reinforcement and praise. For example you could say
” when I spoke to you a while back and you mentioned _____________, I was just flooded at what an amazing,or exciting idea that was. How do you come up with these brilliant idea’s”. I wish i could think of things like that!.

When you force YOUR idea on someone, it never seems to go over as well as you telling them how AMAZING THEY ARE FOR THINKING OF IT. People LOVE to feel adequate and smart. FEED THEIR EGO’S and you will get what you desire.

so, it is important to FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, however, it is just as IMPORTANT to make your lover feel ‘special and unique”.

Feed your lovers ego and they will love how SPECIAL they feel with you, this in itself is an APHRODISIAC

B.D.S.M- The Good, bad and the very, very bad….

B.D.S.M- bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism -shortened to BDSM, is an erotic preference and a form of personal relationship involving the consensual use of restraint, intense sensory stimulation, and fantasy power role play.

Relationship whether within a union of a couple or just PLAY PARTNERS within a BDSM context are characterized by the participants usually taking on a role of either submissive or Dominant-unequal roles, consent of both the partners is essential.
Typically participants exercise control over others – are known as tops or dominants.
Participants who are recipients of being dominated or ‘forced’ into submission,and are controlled by their partners are typically known as bottoms or submissive s. Individuals who alternate between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles are known as switches.

Most people think that this Lifestyle is out of their comfort zone and that it is not for them. However, some couples without knowing it practice light Bdsm in forms.

If you have ever thought it would be sexy to blind fold your partner, or even tie their hands to the bed while teasing them or doing things to them, then you are essentially participating in this lifestyle.

Some people naturally feel they need to be the Alpha in the relationship and are only comfortable in the dominant role.
Once again, without knowing it people can switch during sex into a more submissive/passive mode.

A person in a relationship who usually makes most of the decisions and rules in the partnership may find themselves aroused when their partner gets aggressive in the bedroom. without wanting to say something, can desire their partner get a little more aggressive with them.

When you find yourself in life always in charge, always having to make decisions with a lot of pressure constantly on you, the feeling of ‘giving in and giving yourself’ to someone in this venue can be very erotic and intoxicating.

Quite often people in power choose to find a Mistress or Master to dominate them and force them to submit- thus giving up the responsibility of being in control.

Other people who normally are passive and easy going might find themselves super charged in the bedroom and very aggressive and in control.

Essentially in life we at different moments ‘switch’ from the power to the passive. Everything in life is balance. If we did not sometimes switch then we could easily ‘burn out’.

SOME TYPES OF PLAY…..

Bondage
Whipping
CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)
Wax play
Golden showers (urinating)
Strap on play
Sexual role-play
Medical play
Suspension
Erotic electrostimulation
Spanking
Flogging

Any of these can be done from very gentle and playful to more aggressive depending on the couples desires.

The word BONDAGE can give us the impression that it is a little rough, however, even silk ribbons tying someones hands and feet is bondage/restraint.

WHIPPING/FLOGGING- also gives the impression that it is a little harsh but whips and flogs are made of anything ranging from fur, rubber, deerskin, suede, horse-hair to leather and more…
The couple will decide the intensity of the flogging/whipping according to their pain threshold.

ROLE-PLAY- one of the most harmless parts of this lifestyle, and people indulge in role playing all the time without thinking of it as part of the BDSM lifestyle.
EXAMPLES OF ROLE-PLAY-
Hospital fantasies – involving doctors, nurses and patients.
Age-play – is a form of roleplaying in which an individual acts and/or treats another as if they were a different age. The practice can be regressive, in which the goal is to re-experience childhood, or sexual, recreating a sexual relationship with people of the pretend and/or true ages. Generally this can involve someone pretending to be younger than they actually are, but more rarely can involve assuming an older role.

Master-slave – where a player is treated as the property of the master/mistress.
TTorturer/Captive prisoner – where one player is a captor who abuses the other.
Kidnapped fantasy – The submissive player is bound (rope, duct tape, bondage tape, handcuffs, etc.) and gagged (duct tape gag, bondage tape gag, cleave gag, ball gag, etc.) and teased before the sexual act.
Authority figure/Misbehaving Adult – where a player takes on the role of an authority figure and blackmails or humiliates his or her partner into sexual activity.
Gender-play – where one or more players take on roles of the opposite sex.
Goddess worship – where a woman is seen as a pagan deity.

Uniform fetish – one participant dresses in uniform (for instance as a student, cheerleader, French maid, etc.), while the dominant participant plays an authority figure (a parent, teacher, coach, police officer, etc.).
Rape fantasy or a ravishment where one player feigns being coerced into an unwelcome sex act.

Prison fetish – Situational play set in a prison environment. While it can include authority play, it does not limit itself to the Master/slave paradigm; but expands the opportunities to include non-authority play between equals (such as cell mate love affairs). Prison role playing is able to combine equality and authority play depending upon the situation and the specific roles of individual players. A prison fetish play session includes all sexual orientations and limits itself only by the environment / situations agreed to by the participates. Given real life prisons are same-sex communities, this fetish does lend itself to male on male or female on female activities and settings. Opposite gender play is also possible between inmates and guards or when the setting includes a co-ed facility / institution. Prison play is also an expansion of the uniform fetish by use of inmate, guard, and staff uniforms.

there are many different types of roles you can take on. Perhaps you just like your partner (if you are the Man) to dress up like a school girl, french maid, secretary, nurse, cook, etc.

In these scenario’s the ‘sub’ does not perform their tasks correctly and have to be punished for not doing things the way they should.

IMAGINE THIS ROLE PLAYING FANTASY….

I’m dressed in my sexy little French maid outfit and you have hired me to clean your house.
You’ve been working hard all day, and then fought your way home through awful traffic. You are agitated and can’t wait to get back to your beautiful clean home…

You enter the house and hear the T.V on.. That’s strange because you didn’t leave it on.
You find your maid, who should be cleaning with her feet up watching talk shows.
Infuriated you march over to the TV and turn it off, standing in front of her asking her what she thinks she is doing.
You look around the house and see nothing has been done, she has just fucked off all day watching tv and eating candy.

You demand she stands to her feet.
First of all you exam her to see if she is dressed according to how you told her she must when you hired her.
She is to wear a french maid outfit that you provided. Short ruffle skirt, low cut top, white apron, fishnet stockings, garter belt, crotchless panties, white gloves, and the little cute maid hat with hair in an up do.

Her appearance does not look up to standard and you march her to the bedroom to get her outfit sorted out.
You place the outfit on the bed and tell her to get naked, which she does. Now as she stands naked in front of you, you inspect her to see if she is getting fat from sitting on her ass, watching tv and eating candy.
You make her turn around slowly, your hands reaching out to squeeze and touch her ass, tits and belly. Fortunately she has maintained her sexy figure and you approve. You ask her to start to put on her outfit starting with the garter belt and stockings. Once she has the stockings on she slips on the stiletto heels you make her wear.
You kneel in front of her and run your hands up her legs to check the stockings are on correctly, and then you make her turn her ass towards you and straighten her garter belt and stockings so the stocking top sits just below her ass cheeks.
While you are there, you demand she spreads her Ass cheeks to show you if her asshole and pussy-hole are clean.
You get very close to smell and touch her holes. They are slightly damp, perhaps she was playing with herself earlier you ask.
You know tell her to put on the crotchless panties and the rest of the outfit.

She is fully dressed and in accordance with your standards.
You point out that the floor has some kind of stains on it from spilled coffee or food and tell her to get a wash rag and get down on the floor and clean it up.

She comes back with the rag and gets down on her hands and knees and starts to wash the floor. her skirt is very short, and as she scrubs her ass giggles a little and her pussy lips are exposed through the opening of the panties.
You reach down, tell her NOT to spot what she is doing and place a finger in her cunt.
You continue to finger fuck her cunt hole, making sure it gets nice and wet while she continues to clean the floor.
Her pussy is very juicy and wet and its making your cock hard.
you tell her to turn around and help you out of your clothes, which she does.
Now you are naked in front of her and explain how the drive made you sweaty and she should go get a clean washcloth to clean you down.
She gently washes down your body with the cloth, and once you are clean you tell her to clean your feet with her tongue.
She looks shocked but you firmly make the demand again.
She gets down to the floor, ass in the air and starts licking your feet. You grab the feather duster that is on the bed, reach over her and pull her panties down revealing her ass and pussy.
There is a closet mirror behind her and you have full view of everything.
You rub the feather duster up and down her ass and pussy, making her pussy even more wet.
Your cock is getting stiffer and stiffer…
while she is down there, licking and wiggling her tits fall out of the low cut top, revealing her hard nipples. You tell her to lie on her back with her tits pulled out of the outfit and play with her pussy.
She fingers her cunt with one hand and the other rubs her nipple. You stroke your hard cock while watching her.
It’s time the Maid cleaned more than the floor… Your cock needs polishing for sure!
She opens her mouth and you straddle her face, pushing your cock in between her wet lips, telling her not to stop rubbing her pussy.
You make her lick your cock and balls, and then you place your ass over her face telling her she must clean your asshole.
She is in no position to refuse and complies.

Her tongue eagerly licks your asshole while you stroke your cock.
After a while, you get off her and tell her to bend over the bed. her skirt is pulled up over her ass and her panties pulled down just below her ass.
You tell her to spread her ass cheeks which she does. Her pussy is so pink and wet, and her asshole so tight…
You need to taste them both, you place your tongue up her twat and then into her asshole, licking it and tongue fucking it, getting it soaking wet.. Next you slip your cock into her pussy hole, and your thumb into her wet, tight asshole.
You tell her she isn’t allowed to make any sound no matter what you do to her.
You cock is so swollen and hard while it sinks deep into her wet pussy hole, her asshole is so inviting and tight.
Once you have stretched out her ass with your thumb, you then slowly slip your dick inside her ass.
She makes no sound, you slowly sink it in deeper and deeper. You tell her to reach under and rub her clit and pussy hole.
The more she rubs her clit and pussy, the more relaxed her ass hole gets, allowing you to go balls deep.
You squeeze and spread her ass while fucking up hard. Her body tightens up, and then you can feel her throbbing pussy through her ass.
She came so hard…. And in turn that makes you cum, in her ass….
You pull your cock out of her ass, still covered in cum and tell her she needs to clean off your cock.

After you are clean, its time she really gets that cleaning done, while you relax after a hard days work …..

Role Play is a great way to keep things fun in the bedroom.
BDSM is practiced in all social strata and is common in both heterosexual and homosexual men and women in varied occurrences and intensities
There are only a few studies researching the psychological aspects of BDSM using modern scientific standards.
“BDSM is simply a sexual interest attractive to a minority, not a pathological symptom of past abuse or difficulty with normal sex.
The KARMA SUTRA of India describes four different kinds of hitting during lovemaking, the allowed regions of the human body to target and different kinds of joyful “cries of pain” practiced by bottoms.

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Relationships.
How do we have them and still enjoy our sexual fantasies?
Whether it is religion or family/Social standard that teaches us that Monogamy or Marriage is the correct way for us to live, it is however an obvious fact that some people just cannot or do not wish to live their lives this way.

Some religions do promote and allow “The Man” to have more than one wife (islam, Muslim, mormons, etc) or have Mistresses but few religions promote women having the same ‘open’ choices.

Both sexes have the same insecurities when it comes to their partners desiring another person or enjoying another person more than they enjoy their partner but some people have a desire to see their loved one have sex with another person (voyeurism) or to be watched having sex with another person (exhibitionism), as long as they follow the rules and even more so than that, some people don’t have any rules.

If you are one of the millions who have been raised to believe in marriage and monogamy, you are probably either thinking “Lucky bastards to get to have that freedom with no drama”, or how can a marriage or relationship survive like that?

There are many discussions about what is right or wrong or will work, however, we simply do not really know what will make us great partners or have a happy, long relationship where we are fully satisfied. We can do all the ‘right things’ and be committed but sometimes in our lives we feel a sting of boredom or curiosity.

Some people can ignore these curiosities and others have to act on them.
There are many ways people act this out…
1. Married single (people who are married but act single and ‘date”.)
2. Cheating (not actually dating people or building outside relationships, just having casual sex)
3. Swinging
4. Polygamy (more than one spouse)
5. Hiring escorts (some don’t consider it cheating as no relationship is built, although sometimes there is)
6. Porn/Web Cam Chats/ Strippers

One thing is probably certain is that No-one likes to be lied to or cheated on.
So the safest, most mature way to handle the change in your desires is to have honest, open dialogue with your partner about experimenting.

Many couples have agreed upon swinging because there are so many degrees of how far you can go or need to go, according to your own comfort level.

Perhaps only one partner wants to “taste’ the fruits of others, or maybe having sex with each other but in a room full of people would be enough to Quench your desires.

Having an open honest discussion is the most mature thing to do. Most people feel their partner will leave, or get really angry if they bring this up but you have to really take a long look at your relationship if you are not able to talk to your partner about things that you feel you need in your life.

Healthy relationships, successful relationships are those that are built on trust and honesty. You may be surprised that your partner might need a little ‘SPICE’ also but was also afraid to say anything.

YOLO- You only live Once! this is a such a true statement in regards to living a fulfilled life without being dishonest.
Discuss with your partner ways to spice things up, and if that is just ‘CHECKING OUT’ a Swing club and seeing how you both feel, then go ahead and do it. LIVE A LITTLE. You may find that the plain honesty brings you closer together because you are both going on an exciting adventure TOGETHER!!!

THE EXPERIENCE…..
Imagine the excitement of looking for the right club to visit.
Now (and the ladies will love it) you have to find the right, sexy clothes to wear.
Even the planning of going to the club may excite you both so much you start to have more vibrant sex in the anticipation of the event.
The night comes and you both head to the Swing club, you find the bar inside right away to have a drink to relax.
At first you both sit back in the corner and watch what is going on. The energy in the room is enough to make your hair stand on end, you both get a little excited already and start to make out. Hands are wandering, and now you both find yourselves starting to grope and paw at each other. His fingers move down to your pussy, you wore a very short, sexy dress with Crotchless panties.
His fingers find your wet, hot hole and start to finger you. You move your hand to his cock, surprised its already hard, you shouldn’t be. .
You are so wet and horny and he is rock hard, maybe harder than he’s been in a while. You get up unzip his pants and straddle his lap, slipping his cock into your pussy hole, while you still wear your crotchless, lace panties, which are now pretty wet from your pussy juice dripping on them.
He cock just slides in your cunt, and you slowly move up and down while he squeezes your tits, your nipples are so hard and you are breathing even harder from the excitement of how bad you are both being…

You kiss more passionately than you have in years, so aroused by each other as if you had just met.
You both finish rather quickly as you can’t contain the excitement of the situation.
He blows his wad up inside your tat…
You ease yourself off him and go to the bathroom to clean up.

As you are walking back you see your man talking to a couple. As you approach they introduce themselves to you and ask if its ok if they sit and have a drink with you both.

A drink seems just fine, but as the conversation flows and they praise you both on how attractive and sexy they think you are, you are now flattered and slightly aroused.

They tell you both how turned on they were watching you fuck and how hot it would be if the ladies put on a little show for the fellows while you watch.

The woman you just met, pauses, looks at you, waits for a single if its NOT ok, which you don’t give, so she moves in and starts to kiss you. Her lips are full and soft, she is gentle and it feels so different than a man. You like it and let her take the lead.
Her lips move from your mouth to your breasts, sucking and licking your nipples. Her hand slides up your skirt and fingers easily slip into your already gooey pussy hole.
She slowly moves you over to the couch and lays you down, pushes up your skirt, pulls your panties over to the side and plants her face in-between your thighs, licking and tonguing your wet honey pot.
You are too scared to open your eyes… Are people watching? Is your husband mad? It feels sooooo good.
She keeps licking and fingering your pussy and you have an amazingly big orgasm….
You are laying there, legs wide open, pussy dipping of juice, tits exposed, almost numb from the two amazing orgasms you have just had, then you feel more stimulation… As you peek out of your eyes, you see that the hands now touching your pussy are not your husbands but the other man. You look up and your husband is rubbing his cock on your mouth, while sucking the other womans tits.
He other man is now rubbing his cock on your dripping wet slit and slowly eases it into your hole. You grab your husbands cock and start to suck it, he’s rock hard again.
The woman now moves over your face so you can lick her pussy, she is bend over in doggy position and your husband is behind her sliding his cock into her asshole. You had never imagined that you would see or be ok with your husband putting his cock into another woman, let alone in her asshole AND while you are licking her pussy!
However, this strangers cock fucking your cunt, while You lick a wet pussy is so arousing and hot.
Things heat up quickly, and just as you feel the man pulling out to come, you also feel the woman jump off you and then your husband jerk his cock off into your mouth while the other man jerks off onto your pussy.

The woman, obviously very experienced at this, firstly licks her husbands cum off your pussy and then comes up to your mouth and french kisses you while helping you eat your husbands cum..

This is the most outrageous you could have ever imagined you and your husband would or could be. But your loved it, and it was such a turn on…

In fact, even though you didn’t visit there again for a while, you both talked about it and fucked like teenagers for months to come..

Then it all starts again.. The discussion of where and when next

Don’t let silence and the fear of talking to your partner about your sexual desires ruin your relationship.
Discuss what your needs are and what their needs are.. find a beautiful, sexual harmony between the both of you.

Good luck.
Kiss,
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Hot Lesbo Action between Two Busty Fuck Dolls

When I heard I was going to be working with Kiara Mia I was very excited. Dark, busty and sensual.. She is one hot bitch. Sporting the Taylor Wane Pigtails and over the top glamour make-up made it even sexier for me. I love to play dress up and she looked super hot all dressed up like a dolly ready for Sex Play ;P

We met in a seedy warehouse downtown LA. It was cold and a little dark, we were freezing at first but as soon as our mouths met and we began tongue kissing, mmmmmmmmmm I started to heat up very quickly.

I pushed her against the wall and pulled down her panties while demanding she pull out those big soft tits for me to see.

Her pussy was sweet and juicy, my tongue found its way to her hole and I spread her pussy open with my fingers so I could sink my tongue deep into that wet, pink cunt hole.

I was so enjoying licking her twat but I wanted to play with her big tits too, so I slipped my fingers into her hole and then started sucking on her nipples and huge tits. Her body was so sexy and womanly, every part of her aroused me.

I flipped her around so I could check out that full, round ass… It was nice, very nice, so I got down behind her and spread her meaty ass cheeks so reveal her tight little ass hole. I didnt waste a minute before sinking my tongue into her ass and tasting that sweet rosebud. While tongue fucking her anus I slipped 3 fingers in her wet, juicy cunt hole and finger fucked her hard. Fuck she tasted good. It made my pussy so wet having her ass and pussy on my face.

I slipped on my strap on and made her get down in front of me and suck my cock, to get it nice and wet so I could fuck that pink love hole. She looked like a dirty, horny slut fucking her face with my strap on cock.

I lay her down on the cold concrete and spread her thighs wide open. She was squeezing her nipples and tits and moaning while I rubbed her clit and played with her hole. I rubbed my fingers all over that beautiful pussy hole making sure it was nice and wet before I pushed this big cock inside of her.

I could see her clit was swollen and her cunt glistened with moisture, I slowly pushed the dick into her while holding open her labia’s. I pushed the cock deeper into her, caressing her thighs and public area as I fucked her.
I spat on my fingers and then started rubbing her clit while fucking her honey pot. She moaned deeper and harder. She was so wet. I made her turn over so I could fuck her doggy. I wanted to play with her asshole while penetrating her pussy.

I slide my cock back into her hole, and started to gently run my fingers over her asshole, just teasing her and caressing her.

I gripped her bountiful ass cheeks as I rammed my cock in and out of her cunt hard and fast.
We finished off our fuck session in a pile driver. I fucked that cunt until she creamed all over my strap on, then i shoved it in her hot mouth and made her suck off her own cum from the cock.

I get horny just thinking about fucking her hot, horny holes… oooooooooo

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Kisses,

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New TAYLOR WANE photo shoots/Video Updates

I’ve been ‘HARD’ at work shooting new photo shoots and video for TaylorWane.com and other companies.
I also recently shot a new cover for DDI and Boot Lovers Digest coming out soon

 

Last week I worked for DeviantDavid.com David Christopher the Ultimate Pussy Worshiper, once again grovels at my feet and worships my Ass, tits and pussy.. Finally I unlease a HUGE, non stop Squirt that soaks him to the ‘bone’…..

I’m really enjoying being a red head and finding fun ways to play it up

this week I shot with Jessica Jaymes and her girlfriend Tiffany Brooks…
Oh How I enjoyed that sweet pussy and asshole… Yummy… Pics to come soon
Pics of me in My Purple outfit before I got to chow down on some pussy and Ass…

More to cummmmm soon

Kisses and Smoooooches…

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Valentines is around the corner.. :) And Wishlists

Valentines is a special time, especially for the ladies.
Don’t under-estimate how much joy it will bring your lover if you spoil her on Valentines Day.

Even if she tells you its no big deal, she doesn’t care that much, bla, bla, bla… She’s faking her dis-interest in this ‘lovers celebration’.

It is a time to celebrate your appreciation for your lover.
Don’t you want them to feel loved? Don’t you want them to rejoice in knowing that they have you in their life?
Don’t you want them to gush to their friends how fantastic their partner is and how you are the most thoughtful, sweetest fella in the universe? LOL….

So spoil her a little! Valentines day only comes once a year. So (other than her birthday) take this day to show her you really dig her in so many ways.

1. Flowers/roses… Yeah, we love them!!!! Even if they are gonna die in a few days, we still love them!
2. Chocolates. An aphrodisiac
(a)THE FACTS The Aztecs may have been the first on record to draw a link between the cocoa bean and sexual desire: the emperor Montezuma was said to consume the bean in copious amounts to fuel his romantic trysts.
(b) Why is Dark Chocolate Healthy?:
Chocolate is made from plants, which means it contains many of the health benefits of dark vegetables. These benefits are from flavonoids, which act as antioxidants. Antioxidants protect the body from aging caused by free radicals, which can cause damage that leads to heart disease. Dark chocolate contains a large number of antioxidants (nearly 8 times the number found in strawberries). Flavonoids also help relax blood pressure through the production of nitric oxide, and balance certain hormones in the body .. for Example-it stimulates endorphin production, which gives a feeling of pleasure
it contains SEROTONIN, which acts as an anti-depressant
it contains theobromine, caffeine and other substances which are STIMULANTS.
One, tryptophan, is a building block of serotonin, a brain chemical involved in sexual arousal. The other, phenylethylamine, a stimulant related to amphetamine, is released in the brain when people fall in love.
3. Dinner… Always feels nice to have someone take you out and make a night of it.
4. Sexy Lingerie… Benefits you also
5. Sex Toys… Fun for both of you.
6. A sentimental Card… Shows you were really thinking this Valentines thing through…
7. A sexy get away…Smooth Sailing to romantic bliss
8. Jewelry … Oh you can’t go wrong here!!!
9. Sexy couples massage
10. spa day for both of you
11. Get some sexy couples games you can play to spice things up. Most sex stores now have card games and dice games that you can play to make a fun sexy time between you and your lover.

MISC SKILLS/THINGS LOVERS NEED TO KNOW..
1. What is your lovers favorite meal and how to cook it
2. How to be supportive without seeming or being controlling.
3. how to listen to your partner ACTIVELY instead of PASSIVELY.
4. How to be Dependent without being CO-DEPENDENT.
5. How to be Independent without being DISTANT
6. How to discuss your feelings without dumping on your lover or using psycho babble.
7. How to give a very skillful massage that stimulates, relaxes and arouses.
8. How to choose gifts your partner will love that are for them (and not for you).
9. How to make love to your partner “for their pleasure” instead of focusing on your own pleasure. (I promise you will receive the ultimate pleasure when you realize how much pleasure you are giving your lover).
10.How to listen without Judgement…

MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP ISSUES RANKED BY IMPORTANCE…
1. Intimacy
2. Communication
3.Spirituality
4.Sexuality and Sensuality
5.Dealing with Conflict/Adversity
6.Humor and playtime/fun times
7.Self Worth/Self Empowerment
8.Family
9. Romance
10.Celebrations

WAYS TO PUT SIZZLE BACK INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP…
1. Take a sauna together, a steam shower or hot bubble bath.
2. Make Love 3 nights in a row, in different places
3. Share some of your naughty thoughts and try to role play them out with your lover.
4. Make love in a semi- public place
5. Visit a Nude beach
6. Take a romantic Cruise
7. Dance the Tango Together
8. Make love to “principles of Lust’- Enigma
9. Leave sexy “love Notes’ in places you know your lover has to go (Milk carton, handbag, coat pocket, shoes, etc).
10.Wake up early on Valentines day and make a romantic sexy breakfast for your lover, including a glass of champagne, and chocolate covered strawberries.
11. Run a hot bubble bath with candle lighting in the bathroom, and “bathe’ your lover right before an erotic OIL massage… Make the OIL edible so you can waste no time in moving into Oral sex after you have given the massage.
12. Try a new position at least once a week.
13. tell your lover all the ways that they make you happy and turn you on…
14. Make sure to find out what really turns your partner on, or where all their ‘Soft Spots’ are… And take them to a bliss place…

Almost anything you do will get good results if you put some effort and thought into it. If you are saying to yourself, you just don’t have the money for all of this, well, there are ways to spoil her on a tight budget.

You can get chocolates and little cute gifts from the 99c store or a bunch of Valentines Balloons.
You can get a bouquet of flowers at a reasonable price.
You can hand make a card or make a home made romantic dinner for two, with candles and a sexy massage.

It’s not about spending a lot of money, it’s about putting some thought into it, and making a special effort to show you care.

We all want to know that we are loved and appreciated.
Take time to celebrate the relationship you have, work on building a better rapport.

Happy Valentines Day…
A time to love, cherish and celebrate the most important thing we will ever know… TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN…

KISSES
Miss Taylor Wane
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Have an amazing Valentines Day and Every day……..

Miss Taylor Wane
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