Archive | September 2012

Sexual Fetishism. What’s your Fetish?

Sexual fetish-ism, or erotic fetish-ism, is the ‘sexual arousal’ a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation.
The object or situation of interest is called the fetish;
The person who has a fetish for that object/situation is a fetish-ist.
A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to Psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a foot fetish. That is called PARTIALISM. This is when a part of the body is extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe however could be a Fetish.
What makes a Fetish a Fetish by definition when it interferes with your life. It’s not just something you LIKE to do, but something you have to do. So for example, if you had a Shoe Fetish, then the person could not ejaculate without the Shoe present.
Early psychology assumed that fetish-ism either is being conditioned or imprinted or perhaps the result of a strong emotional, sometimes traumatic physical experience. More than often these experiences were experienced in childhood. However, this is not a hard, fast rule. Sometimes victims of crimes later fantasize about the crime happening to them over and over, for example Rape or a Robbery.

Even something as innocent as seeing a brief sight of something at a vulnerable age or time could leave an imprint in your memory that develops into a fetish. Perhaps it is not a brief moment at all.  Many young men who have been aroused by seeing Cheerleaders during the ball game, or perhaps they get a fixation on a teacher or an authoritative figure and that becomes their obsession or fetish. Men and Women alike

*Alfred Binet suspected fetishism was the pathological result of associations.
Meaning the presence of an object  while simultaneously stimulated may make that object became permanently connection to the persons sexual desires.

ASSOCIATION THEORY makes sense, for example..The first lover you had sex with had jet black hair.  Now you become aroused when you see a women with black hair.

One Gentlemen who spoke to me about his Fetish told of a Young Prostitute he had met while deployed over seas.  She wore bright red, thick lipstick. He never forgot his experience with her as he was so lonely when deployed that she was the only comfort the young man had.  The thought of her became his fixation and for him to obtain an erection and eventually ejaculate he had to have whatever women in his presence wear bright red lipstick or he was not able to maintain arousal.

*The sexologist Magnus Hirschfeld followed another line of thought when he proposed his theory of partial attractiveness in 1920. According to his argument, sexual attractiveness never originates in a person as a whole but always is the product of the interaction of individual features.

*Sigmund Freud, the world renowned Austrian Neurologist who became known as the founding father of Psycho-Analysis believed that sexual fetishism in men derived from the unconscious fear of the mother’s genitals, from men’s universal fear of castration, and from a man’s fantasy that his mother had had a penis but that it had been cut off. He did not discuss sexual fetishism in women.

Common Examples of Fetish’s are;
Body hair, chubby chasers, muscles worship, S & M, golden showers, uniform, piercings, tattoos, rubber, Being bound in Cling film, Latex, Nylons, pantyhose, stilettos, boots, hair, PLUSHIES ( See my role in LOLA’S LOVE SHACK),
Scat, Golden Showers, Diapers, Vomit, being robbed or raped, vampires, cross dressing, asphyxia or asphyxiation, dead bodies, erotic eating or food, enemas, breast milk, squirting, being humiliated, flashing ones genitals in public, inflicting pain on others  otherwise known as Sadism, sleeping or unconscious people, dirty or obscene phone calls and or Language, transvestism, cuckholdism, blood, the idea of being eaten by someone, dressing as a child, buttocks, committing rape or rape fantasy, noses, cars, stealing, crying, being on stage or camera , having an amputation, having sex with someone who has an amputation, spanking or being spanked, realistic dolls or body parts, Hentai (Perverse Anime),  attraction to older men or women, attraction to young men or women, mannequins and many, many, more.

Clothing fetish, or garment fetish, is a sexual fetish that revolves around a fixation upon a particular article or type of clothing, a collection of garments that appear as part of a fashion or uniform, or a person dressed in such a garment.
Common examples of Garment fetish are leather, Latex, Rubber, Military Uniforms, Medical Uniforms, french maid, school teacher, cheerleader, girl scout, fireman, Police Office and more..

Now… What’s Your Fetish?

Many of my movies have involved Fetish or Fetish clothing.
To see me in some of my fetish features check out

Movies such as Dirty Deeds, Decadent Desires, Secret Diary 1 & 2, Decadent Divas 19, 20, 21, or my INTERACTIVE SERIES which involves NURSE TAYLOR, FRENCH MAID TAYLOR AND SECRETARY TAYLOR.

I want to know your Fetish.. Share it with me
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