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Breaking the Boredom- Intimacy wtih your lover should never be anything but #1

There is no doubt SEX/INTIMACY is by far one of the most wonderful, incredible, endorphin providing, emotional and psychological feel good activities of our lives.
In the biological make-up of every human being, Intimacy/Sex is one of the Basic Functions of the human existence. Not only for procreation but also for feeling a sense of security and well being. We not only need to nourish our bodies with food and water, we need to sleep, exercise and to have companionship and love. Many studies have shown that couples who are married or co-habitating are much healthier and happier than their single friends (no matter how much the single folk boast it is soooo great to be single).
Even in our most difficult times we can feel a little better with some intimacy and orgasms, especially with someone we love.

Personally I think the better we know someone and the closer we are with that person the better the sex gets. You know each other, you are comfortable to do and say things that you want (Or hopefully you are!!!). You can explore each others bodies without guilt because this is your partner and your friend.

However, even the closest of people get a sticking point some where along the line. Maybe too many every day problems get their minds all clouded. Even the best of us have to make an effort sometimes to dig ourselves out of the sexual block we can fall into.

I’ve spoken before about how in general people feel that relationships once they are established can go onto auto pilot. This is not true and if you choose to believe that once you are in an established union you don’t have to try anymore or still “court’ your partner then you may run into some intimacy problems or a feeling of dis-connect later in the union.

Everyone desires passion and the feeling of being desired. Even more so by the person they love. It is all too important to express yourself to your partner at all times. Don’t assume that ‘ Well, you know how I feel”. Ok great, maybe they do, but they still want to hear it. They still want to see you make an effort.

So, this brings us to ‘Breaking the Boredom”.
Don’t let the title mis-lead you, I am not suggesting that for one minute that even if you do Missionary every night that you don’t both orgasm and enjoy the sex and I applaud any couple that is having a continuous fulfilling playtime with their lovers.

Don’t forget that every now and then you should mix it up, surprise your lover, do something a little special every now and then, so that you both still get that Adrenaline rush when you know sex is gonna happen 🙂

Sex should never be a chore or a part of the relationship you know you have to do it, so lets get it done and get on with more pressing things like doing the dishes or laundry.

WTF!!! There are other things more important in your relationship than making sure the connection between you are your lover is always #1 on the list!
If you have a strong bond and connection with your partner, then everything else in life will be easier to deal with. It’s when you put that emotional security on the bottom of the things that need to be done in the day that everything else seems harder.

Let’s get to work at making your intimacy #1 on the list.

Ask yourself if you really want your relationship to start to crumble and fall apart. If the answer is NO, then its time to take care of business and ‘court’ your lover continuously throughout the relationship.

It’s so simple….
It takes a little effort and thought. Every now and then a nice dinner somewhere different or special. Flowers or chocolates for NO reason. Buying some lingerie or other sexy items you know he would like and just wearing it out of the blue when he comes home to get his motor running. A trip out of town or stay in a hotel for a night or weekend away from your family so you can really re-connect and be super naughty.

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THE SCENARIO……

You know your lover well, you know what they like and don’t like (if this is not true, then its time for you to start to get to know your lover!).
So, on the down low, you find out their schedule and then you aline it with yours. You want to be totally alone with them and do Oh so Naughty things 😉
Time is a problem, you both have jobs, kids, and other obligations but you find a weekend that you both have a day/night off and then you go about arranging someone to take care of the kids.

After a little research on the internet you find a cozy little hotel not too far of a drive from home but far enough away that you can’t be tempted to go check on things.
It’s been a while since you dressed up in a sexy outfit for him and remember how hot he would get on your honey moon when you wore bikini’s for the beach.

You find a little Sex store that carries lingerie and swimsuits, Yeah, the kind STRIPPERS WEAR!! Not the full back boring family friendly stuff that ‘Wal-Whateva’ carries. You pick a color you know he will like and find some super sexy heels that might just make this bikini look even better on you!
Then you book the hotel room and tell your man that you have some things you need fixing at the home and to make sure he keeps “that day/night’ free because you really need for him to help you.
On that day you pop out for ‘groceries’ but really drive to the hotel to set the mood and pre-check in.
You make sure you have the right music, booze, candles, massage oil, toys, the bikini and the slutty heels you are going to be wearing.

Once everything is in place in the hotel then you grab the kids and take them to the in-laws or whomever.
It’s now late afternoon and you tell your man that you need help picking things up and he needs to come with you, and you are driving.
BE CREATIVE… Even if you don’t tell lies, use your imagination to get him out of the house, into the car and off to your destination..

Once you arrive outside the hotel you some how get him to go in with you, even at this point you tell him you have a surprise for him.
Once inside, he will get the point. Booze, candles, music…. You tell him to relax on the bed, while you get comfortable. You slip into your bikini and slutty heels and doll up your hair and makeup..

You slink into the room, all sexy and feeling naughty and offer him a drink. You slowly pour the drink, bending over and teasing him in your outfit.
You occasionally give him a little look back while pouring the drink and tell him to get undressed.
With two drinks in hand you slowly walk over to him, using your sexiest, super vixen look you can muster up.
You hand him the drink and ask if he would like a nice massage to loosen him up.
He is laying on the bed, face down and you warm the oil in your hand first then place your hand on his body. Slowly but firmly rubbing his body, his shoulders and back, not speaking, just the music playing softly in the background.
You get into the rhythm of the massage, breathing and stroking him being as sensual as you can.
Every now and then you let your breasts rub up against his back and down to his ass.
Your hands run down his spine, and to his ass cheeks, firmly kneading and massaging them.
Every now and then you plant little kisses on his skin, in between stroking and rubbing him everywhere. You ask if he would like to turn over, and of course he would.
As he lays in front of you and you rub his chest and stomach for a while, you stop to rub some oil slowly on yourself, giving him a little show. Your breasts fall out of the bikini top… OOOPs.. and then you start to use your boobs to rub him all over. As your nipples harden, you run them over his cock, letting him know you are turned on.
You pull your bikini bottom to one side to reveal your pussy. Your oily hands rub your pussy and clit and he is visually aroused. Seeing his hard cock in front of you just makes you want to lick it and suck it. So, you take hold of his cock and start to stroke it with one hand and fondle his balls with the other. His veins swell and his cock is engorged and ready for some action. You run your wet tongue up and down his cock and balls, and then slip it into your warm, wet mouth. As you suck his cock your hands continue to fondle and caress his balls and cock. Your pussy is so wet from seeing how aroused your lover is. You reach down and touch your pussy to find she is dripping. You climb on top of him and slowly lower your cunt onto his hard man meat. Your tits are still out of the top and bobbing back and forth over his face as your pussy masturbates his dick. He grabs your tits and starts to squeeze and suck on them, making your pussy even more wet from the extra stimulation. His cock is penetrating you so deep you start to ooze and squirt all over it, moaning and quivering. You want more, hard, deeper, faster…
So you raise up and then bend over with your ass high in the air, reach back and spread your ass cheeks to let him know you want him to fuck you. “I want your hard fucking cock deep in my wet pussy hole baby”, you tell him…
He grabs your ass cheeks and spreads them wide, aiming his cock for your pink, wet twat hole. As it sinks into your hole, you moan and groan with such pleasure. “Fuck your cock feels so good”, I want it deep baby, fuck me hard, make me scream”.
He sinks that hard man meat into your sopping wet twat, pounding you and fucking you like you both just met.
“Oh, I want it harder, give me every inch of that fucking cock”, you scream…
You reach under neath and start to rub your swollen clit, as he pounds your cunt. You can feel his cock swell as his nuts fill with cum, ready to explode wherever he wants. You rub your clit as hard as you can, wanting to cum as he orgasms.
You can feel it building in his cock as his meat throbs and pulsates. “Yes, fuck me hard baby, fuck that fucking cunt”! You tell him. “I want you to fuck that cunt hole until you squirt every drop of your jizz in your cunt, on my cunt, wherever you want it baby”.
You reach back again spreading your asshole and pussy, so he knows that when he is ready to cum he can just unload that hot, sticky cum all over your pussy hole and asshole. He lets out a deep groan as he pulls it from you and starts to shoot his load on your open wet holes.
You both collapse in a heap of sweat and body fluids….
“Well, we have the hotel and I’ve cleared our schedule so we can do this all night long”, you gush with excitement.

Now, just taking the time to arrange a surprise SEXY ENCOUNTER with your lover, wasn’t that worth it and gives you both something to think about for some time until the next little Intimate Encounter you or he arranges.

Break The Boredom, Keep the Intimacy alive by never putting your relationship on Auto- pilot.

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Power Play- who is really the BOSS in the Bedroom?

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Taylor Wane - Bossy Bitch in Charge

Power Play-Who is really the BOSS IN THE BEDROOM?
Whether you are really the boss or not, sometimes you either want to be in charge or give up your power every now and then….. Well, in the bedroom at least.
The creature with the loudest roar isn’t always the meanest or toughest in the jungle.
Sometimes that Roar is just there to ward off possible threats by bluffing.
Power exchange is age long and just plain basic Human Nature.
It can be exciting and thrilling to pretend to be in charge and demand or instruct your lover to do as you wish.
“A little” resistance from your partner could be fun, even perhaps tying them up with your neck tie to the bed while seducing and controlling them further.
Who wants Vanilla Sex all the time, it serves a purpose, it gets the job done but it doesn’t insight the kind of adrenaline you get when you are faced with the unknown. Role-Playing is a fun, erotic, generally safe way for couples to explore their sexuality..
So many role you can take on, whether you are a Cop arresting your partner and performing a “strip-Search’ and cavity search or Doctor/patient. It goes on and on, so many erotic, fun games you can play with your lover.

Today I wanted to play WHO’S THE BOSS and not with Tony Danza!

After a long tense day my lover had called and said they were coming over. I was in the mood for a little playful power play and I wasn’t going to warn my lover what I had in mind.
He knew better than to not imagine what was in store for him. Depending on what I’ve done in the day my imagination can run wild.

I went to my closet and found a skin tight black skirt and tight white, business blouse complete with Red tie.
I took from my draw some Lacey Black Lingerie, with garter-belt and stockings. I slipped on my silk stockings one dainty foot at a time, hooked them to my garter belt, and put on the bra and panty. I got into the skin tight business skirt and shirt and fixed my tie.
I pinned my hair up a little to really bring him the business look, and painted my full lips with a deep, rich, lip color.

My lover arrived and I opened the door, the buttons were undone deep into my cleavage, showing my full breasts mounted on the lacy bra.

His eyes grew large and he held back a smile. I invited him in and instructed him to go to the bedroom. When he got to the bedroom I commanded that he get undressed until he was completely naked, which of course he did.
I then told him to get on the bed and take the oil on the side table and stroke his cock for me. He complied.
He rubbed the oil all over his cock, and his cock swelled and grew quickly. I told him to massage it into his balls as well and then bend over so I could inspect him. He reluctantly bent over but fulfilled my request any way.
I took some oil and started to rub the warm oil up and down his ‘taint’ and massage it into his balls. I reached down and grabbed his hard cock and stroked it while I placed my mouth on his asshole. It was quite humiliating for him to be bent over in this ‘bitch’ position and several times he tried to rise out of it but I quickly ‘demanded’ he return to his bitch position or I would Punish him in ways he will not forget.
His cock was fully erect and his asshole looks sweet. I put my big lips on his asshole and my tongue searched his sweet hole. His body tense, he fought how good it felt having me use his body like my plaything, meanwhile uncomfortable at the position he had taken for me.
My tongue wandered exploring his anus, and testicles, I licked up and down his cock, teasing him.
I told him to flip over and lie on his back.
He lay in front of me, naked and hard. I slowly began to undress. Taking off my tie first, then unbuttoning my shirt, and slipping out of my tight skirt.
I pulled my panty over to the side and then mounted his face. I pushed my pussy onto his mouth and demanded he tongue fuck my hole. His tongue sank deep into my cunt hole and I grinded my hole on his mouth until I squirted into his mouth.
I raised up my sopping wet twat and slipped it down onto his hard shaft.
I lowered my pussy down on his cock his I my pubic bone hit his. He was balls deep in my soaking, wet pussy hole. I grabbed his wrists and held him down as I fucked his cock.
I put my mouth on his and licked his tongue, tasting him from every hole and angle. I continued to fuck his cock with my pussy hole, as I dangled my huge tits in his face. His tongue flicked out of his mouth wanting to lick my tits. I pushed a nipple into his mouth, telling him to suck on my tits while I milked his dick with my cunt. As he sucked on my tit, it sent tingles down my body to my pussy hole. My pussy was so wet, and I was as aroused as I have ever been.
I de-mounted him and bent over, I was so turned on I wanted his cock in my asshole.
I reached back and stretched my ass cheeks and fingering my asshole to ready it for his huge cock.
I looked back at him and taunted him to show me what a big, strong man he was. It was time to teach this bossy bitch that you are the Alpha dog!

He leaned over spat on my asshole, and then pushed his cock up against my A hole.
I held my breath in anticipation…… Nothing came right away…
Then he grabbed me threw me over, and pinned me down. Quickly he took my tie and tied my wrists to the bed. then he found something to tie my legs open on the bed and blind fold me.
I was so mad! I had wanted that fucking cock, and now he does this shit!
He changed his demeanor and told him he was now in control. he was going to do whatever he wanted with my body.
He then put a piece of tape over my mouth so I couldn’t talk. He proceeded to pinch, finger, touch, grope and squeeze every part of my body. My tits, my pussy, asshole, he explored them all. He took out some of my dildos from my draw and rubbed oil all over my body so every inch of me was slick and covered in hot oil. He penetrated my pussy and asshole with the dildo’s taunting me as he did. He spread my holes and examined them, stretching them open, putting his tongue inside of them, then his fingers or cock or sex toy. He fucked my pussy and asshole then shot his cum deep in my asshole, then stretching it open and letting it drip out and then immediately pushing them cum back into my hole with his finger.
He took my Hatachi wand out of the draw of my bedside table and started to stimulate me again, he put the wand on my clit while rubbing my pussy hole with his fingers. In seconds I came so hard it almost hurt, but he didn’t stop! He continued to make me come, again and again and again…..
My pussy ached as it kept pumping and pumping, cumming and cumming.
He started to stroke his cock again, and told me how he was going to cum up inside my pussy hole, at this point I longed to feel his cock inside of my cum drained pussy hole.
He slipped his rock hard cock inside of my cunt and fucked it hard as he could, I could feel his cock throbbing, and then as he shot his hot load inside of me… He pulled his cock out of me and I could feel the cum dripping out and running down my ass crack and thighs. I lay there, blind folded and tied to the bed, plus gagged!
I heard nothing, it seemed he left. I was shocked, mad, a bit scared but helpless….

I waited and waited, then I felt him again. fingering my asshole and pussy, fingering it really hard, making me squirt and shoot out of my hole. He then began rubbing more oil on my huge tits, then I felt him put his cock between them and fuck them, squeezing them hard around his cock. Every now and then he would slap his hard cock on my nipples and all over my tits, then go back to fucking them.
A quick yank and he had removed the tape from my mouth, but just as I tried to speak he shoved his cock into my mouth, gagging me again. He fucked my mouth, and throat and every now and then pulling it out to slap me across the face with it, then before I could speak he gagged me with his cock again.
His cock was so swollen and I could barely breath while he fucked my face without concern. He unleashed his hot, thick jizz into my throat and mouth and all over my face. He continued all night long to fucked my holes, cuming again and again in every hole until he was completely drained and me also as he forced me to orgasm over and over, while all the while he kept me his fuck doll, tied up and gagged, helpless and vulnerable.

Once he released me I was too tired to be mad and I was fully satisfied and drained of cum..
I must admit I did plan on being THE BOSS, but I admired his spunk in letting me have my way for a while, but finally showing me who really is BOSS….

A lesson I am happy to learn 🙂
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New TAYLOR WANE photo shoots/Video Updates

I’ve been ‘HARD’ at work shooting new photo shoots and video for TaylorWane.com and other companies.
I also recently shot a new cover for DDI and Boot Lovers Digest coming out soon 🙂
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Last week I worked for DeviantDavid.com David Christopher the Ultimate Pussy Worshiper, once again grovels at my feet and worships my Ass, tits and pussy.. Finally I unlease a HUGE, non stop Squirt that soaks him to the ‘bone’…..


I’m really enjoying being a red head and finding fun ways to play it up 🙂


this week I shot with Jessica Jaymes and her girlfriend Tiffany Brooks…
Oh How I enjoyed that sweet pussy and asshole… Yummy… Pics to come soon 🙂
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Better Oral Sex…. For everyone…

Who doesn’t want to give better Oral Sex or RECEIVE amazing oral sex?
Worse still, if you have been in a long term relationship and it ends, even though you think you are an expert at Oral Sex the truth is.. You might have gotten great at Oral Sex with THAT PARTNER. You had plenty of time to find out what made them swooooon….

However, with every new partner comes a new experience.
People respond to senses in different ways. One person may like a Blow Job with (OUCH) teeth, but the next person gets a bit upset when your teeth scrap over their sensitive shaft.

You’ve done your A,B,C ‘s on her pussy and its not working! You licked and licked… Nothing…
You tugged on her lips (Labia Minora) with your mouth, she pulled away slightly…
You start to lose confidence thinking you will never know what she really wants.

And women tend to think it’s a no brainer to give a B.J. In fact, Men don’t help by saying their is no such thing as a BAD BLOWJOB…
However, unless you are vocal about what feels good to you, then your partner may feel confused on how to make you cum, worse again, they may get so intimated by not being able to find your arousal soft spot that they start to retreat and oral sex starts to Wane away…. Leaving you wondering why.

Things can go down hill here.
Because your partner has lost confidence in trying to make you cum, but has not told you that they are confused and intimated, you know wonder why they aren’t going down on you….

Worse case scenario is that you start to think they don’t like your package down below… Now you are losing confidence too and so the sex starts its decline into a somewhat OK experience instead of an amazing experience each and every single time!

Unfortunately, Sex really comes down to psychology…
We are all affected by what creeps into our heads during sex.
At a time when you can’t really think clearly because you are aroused can be the most important time you say the right things..

When trying to discover what really turns your partner on, or what feels the best to them, be cautious in how your deliver the questions.
Be sexy (not aggressive), be sweet (they are as vulnerable as you are), be playful (not mocking just lighthearted)..

When asking your partner how something feels, just test it out for a moment and ask in a quiet, sexy way “do you like it if I …… like this?”. Or “Would you like it if I……. to you, I want to make sure it feels good to you”.
Let your lover know that you really want to give them the ultimate pleasure and not just ‘PERFORM’ the task as if you are trying to just get it done.

Sex is the most profound and intimate way to express your love for someone. It can also be fun, a form of play that engages another person and allows you to explore each other and what feels good to both of you.

Take time to get to know the genitals fully. LOL… I know as Adult we think we know what is going on down there but sometimes we don’t really know everything that is going on down there.

Take the time to find out what feels good to your lover, you do not want to waste time doing something to them they are too afraid to tell you they are not enjoying.

For instant, some people feel that if a woman has large Labia Minora (LIPS) that they probably feel good if you tug on them and play with them.

Some women like this, others HATE IT…

The skin and the mucosa of the labia minora (the lips that usually DRAPE the vaginal hole) are rich in sebaceous glands and nerve endings, thus the labia are very sensitive to the touch. These folds of vulvo-vaginal skin have a core of connective, erectile tissue (analogous to the corpus spongiosum penis), and are covered by stratified, squamous epithelium — thus, the labia minora moisten and swell with extracellular fluid during sexual arousal. Furthermore, during urination, the labia minora function to direct the urine stream away from the pudendum femininum.

Thus imagine if you had a foreskin and your partner kept tugging on it and pulling it away from your penis… Some men might enjoy this, but I would imagine on a whole that it would be awkward and uncomfortable.

It is so important to try different methods with your lover and listen very carefully to their breathing and sounds to see which seems to speed their breathing and make their heart race 🙂

No one said it was going to be easy to give GREAT oral sex.
You may have to multi task.
Some men like stroking and sucking at the same time.
Some may enjoy sucking, stroking and a little finger in the ass.
Some May want sucking, stroking and tugging on the nuts.

Same for the ladies.. Not all women are going to enjoy the same thing, so don’t have the attitude that you are a PRO and need no help getting around down there.

Not all lovers enjoy the same sensations!!! Do not forget this.
If one guy loves his nuts sucked and tugged, the next guy may be very turned off by all that ball action.

Remember just because in your head you think “Oh this has got to feel good if I do it like this”, doesn’t mean your lover is thinking it feels good.

Make sure to take it slowly, if you are trying different things down there listen carefully to see what makes your partner breath heavier or deeper.
Try to stimulate more than one area at a time…

So if you are licking her pussy hole, then gently stroke her clit with your finger.
Or if you are licking her clit, then finger her pussy hole…

It always helps to relax your partner before performing oral sex on them, so why not offer a nice slow massage first to get them relaxed and used to your touch.
Or a nice bubble bath, and sud them up and wash them down, paying close attention to washing their naughty parts to get them aroused and stimulated.

Once engaged then take it to the next level….
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Don’t forget there is nothing wrong with using power tools.. LOL… Get a little vib that you can put on her clit while licking her pussy hole. If it usually takes too long for her to cum, the vibrator will certainly speed things up.
Or slipping a vibrating dildo in her pussy while licking her clit… But gently, quite often deeper is not better.
Sometimes less is more. which is why you need to pay close attention to how your lover is responding to your touch.

There are also lubes and gels you can put on your lover that will stimulate them while your are performing oral.
PENIS AROUSAL GEL- comes in flavors and tingles on the penis to give extra stimulation.
Clitoral AROUSAL GEL- An arousal gel to heighten female sensitivity and satisfaction.

Pleasing your partner Orally will lay strong foundations for your relationship. Giving oral sex really shows you are INTO your partner. Don’t under-estimate the power of Oral sex and oral orgasms.

Lazy Lovers Make for Unsatisfied partners….
You may think you are getting away with something by by-passing giving your partner an orgasm but you are just heading for disaster. Your lover may not vocalize that they are not satisfied with your love making but they could be thinking it.

Intimacy and sexual gratification is key to a healthy, loving relationship. Good sex is the glue that keeps people together. When the passion is gone, the relationship feels like an empty room with no life, cold and unpleasant to be in.

Make your bedroom the sexiest place to be and never view sex as another chore that has to be done…
Take pleasure always in pleasing your lover, you will be happier at the end of the day from the pleasure you give…

xoxoxox

Miss Taylor Wane
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