Tag Archive | sex

Greek for the First time…

Going Greek for the First time….

It seems like such a long time ago, but when I lived in England, there was nothing I liked better than traveling. I went everywhere – Spain, Italy, France and even Greece. The summers were the best time to go and I always went with one of my girlfriends.

One time we stayed in a small villa in Greece where the rules were very strict – no guests allowed or you’d be thrown out. The beach was beautiful and it always made my temperature rise if you know what I mean. The environment was full of half-naked people – literally! The beaches in Europe are topless. The nights were filled with drinking and dancing and we always dressed very provocatively to reveal our well-tanned bodies.

One night a particular guy caught my eye. He was tall and broad with black hair and dark brown eyes. His smile slightly curled on his lips and he was really checking me out, staring like an obsessed fan. He eventually approached me and introduced himself as Nikos. I knew the moment he spoke that he was a Greek God for sure and from that second on he didn’t leave my side, fighting off all contenders.

The first night Nikos walked me back to my villa he politely kissed my hand and turned to leave. He was a true gentleman. My heart sank as I wished for more, but then he suddenly turned back and asked me if I’d like to go to dinner the following night. Of course I said yes and he kissed my hand again and we made plans for eight o’clock.

The vision of Nikos stayed with me until I awoke the next morning. I jumped out of bed, showered, and got ready for my tour of the island. I couldn’t wait to tell my friend about Nikos and how sexy he was.

Eight o’clock finally came and he was right on time. Wearing a white, cotton shirt with the front left open, he looked like dinner himself. The nights are very hot in Greece so you wear as little as possible. We went to dinner and the only thing on my mind was his cock. I wanted his hard dick so bad.

Nikos walked me to my room again that night and before he had a chance to kiss my hand, I leaned into him and pressed my lips against his. He responded very passionately and led me off to a back alley. The kissing was very passionate and his lips were so soft I felt I was sinking into them. As the kisses got even more passionate, his hands began to wander all over my body. First he slipped his hand down my top to fondle my breasts, my nipples were so hard from the kissing. He placed his mouth on my nipple and sucked it as if he was trying to feed from me. Then his other hand went up my skirt and his fingers rubbed the outside of my cotton panties. As his fingers rubbed back and forth against the outside of my panties, my pussy got so wet and my juices started to make the cotton sticky and wet. My clit swelled and was pushing through the fabric. I let my hand move down to his pants and his hard cock was so swollen and forced up against his zipper. I slipped his zipper down and put my hand on his cock and started to stroke it. His cock was throbbing and he obviously wanted to fuck me. Nikos quickly pulled my skirt up and yanked my panties to one side as he whipped his cock out and slammed it into my cunt. He pressed me up against the wall while he stretched my tight twat penetrating me deeper than ever before. I was so excited I couldn’t breathe. I felt like I would collapse before him, but he had me pinned to the wall, fucking the shit out of me and sucking on my face like he was trying to eat me. Nikos fucked me with everything he had and I let out a scream, after which he pushed me down to my knees and shoved his pussy-wet dick into my mouth. With one big jolt, he shot the biggest wad of jizz down my throat. I swallowed it quickly and pulled down my skirt. Nikos pulled me up to him and cradled me in his arms, kissing me tenderly. I told him to meet me again tomorrow night at eight.

My girlfriend and I spent most of the next day shopping, but all I could really concentrate on was the events that were sure to unfold that evening.
The clock struck eight and Nikos knocked on my door. I appeared wearing a see-through, flowing dress that buttoned up the front. I had no bra or panties on, in preparation for what would surely take place later that night.

Nikos took me to the island of Mikonos – a very romantic, quiet setting where we had dinner and conversation ’till about ten. After that, my Greek stud took me back to his little apartment on the other side of the island. We entered the bedroom first and he told me to lay down on my stomach. He licked the back of my neck and bit very gently, while sliding my new dress up above my hips. His fingers quickly fucked me before he slid his cock into me from behind. He made me scream with intoxicating pleasure as he slapped my ass while slamming into my pussy over and over again. Nikos slowed down for a moment and spread my ass cheeks wide and before I knew it, I found out exactly what doing it “Greek” was. My ass was being penetrated in a soothing rhythm, his fingers massaging my butt hole until I came. He then worked his thick cock up my ass, stretching my brown dot to the max. Feeding my ass every inch of his meat. Nikos finally pulled out and came all over my cheeks.

Our little affair lasted for two weeks, and he asked me to stay longer or at least come back soon and visit. I knew I couldn’t stay, but maybe one day I would return. The time I spent with Nikos was great, both physically and mentally and how can I ever forget my first experienced having Greek… Literally.
Horny and wet for you,
Taylor Wane
http://www.taylorwane.com
http://www.buytaylorwane.com
http://www.taylorwaneauctions.com
http://www.taylorwaneblog.net

See all the latest hot fucking scenes of me on my newly launched personal website.
http://www.taylorwane.com
Where you will find the largest collection of TAYLOR WANE…

Greek in Greece

Greek in Greece

Whats Your Fetish or Fantasy?

WHATS YOUR FETISH?

Have you ever considered that you have a Fetish? Or did you just write it off as “that’s just what I like”. However, when you find yourself always resorting to a single thought or situation to get you over the edge then perhaps its a Fetish. Nothing wrong with that, we all have things we enjoy, love or obsess about.

As many years as I have performed in Adult films, 22 years to be exact you would think I have seen and done it all and some think I’d be bored but I still love to think of naughty situations to put myself in to spice things up and push the limits. I still get very turned on by dressing up as a Porn Star even in private and acting like a complete slut, even after all these years.

Make-up, dressing up slutty, acting naughty, is kinda my fetish. I rarely get turned on by being just plain, no makeup, no sexy get up, I still Love the sex but dressing up super slutty really puts me in the mood to be totally dirty. And I love Dirty….

Sometimes when things get in a rut you probably find yourself searching for something that will rev your engine. You will search porn sites, think of situations in your life where something or someone just drove you totally wild. You may just reenact it in your head during sex, or if you have a willing partner then you can reenact or live out fantasies for real.

Soooo what’s your Fetish?

What do you find yourself digging up to really get you going. It maybe something that embarrasses you but most of the time you probably keep it in your head anyway.

Do you like anal, huge tits, tiny tits, cheerleaders, nurses, the head mistress, the idea of getting caught, sex toys, oil massages, food sex, foot sex, dressing up as a Fuzzy, latex, leather, the idea of being gang banged, being tied up and left vulnerable, thinking what might happen to you? Oh MY!!!! lol…

All of these situations or fetish’s take us out of the boring, same old, same old, or the mundane repetitiveness of our lives and work.

The Story/The Situation:

So a few years back I was in a relationship and I had been in the same relationship for a while and things had started to become a little stale, he worked so much and had little time for adventure. I loved excitement and adventure. I liked living on the edge….

I had fantasized many times about doing wild and crazy fuck sessions, gang bangs, swinging, anything to keep things exciting but my fella was a straight laced guy. I decided to shake him up without really doing anything that could ruin our wonderful relationship.

One day while he was at work I asked my girl friend to come over and help me set up a situation.
She came over and at my request tied me up and left a note waiting at the door for my guy to find when he got back.

The Note requested he go to the bedroom where he would find me tied up, he was to do things to me without untying me or asking permission. Anything he had every thought of. I was gaged and bound and couldn’t stop him or say anything, so I was at his mercy.

The note also read that the person who did this was watching and possibly dangerous and he had to comply to this demand. The Police were NOT to be contacted…..

I crossed my fingers he wouldn’t freak out and call them. Wouldn’t that be awkward.

He called and said he was on his way home, and I had her tie me up and gag me, and hide somewhere… Just in case things didn’t go well.

I heard the door and must admit I got a little scared too, I didn’t know what to expect and didn’t know what he would do.

It seems to take forever for him to come to the room and then the door opened. He stood there looking at me, just staring. I couldn’t say anything, I could move so I had no way of asking him if everything was ok… I just stared back.

He still stood there for a few moments and then slowly walked over to me and started touching me. He reached down and squeezed on my tits, then pulled them out of the lace blouse that were covering them. He started to unzip his zipper and then pulled out his cock. He began stroking it while still touching my breasts. He pushed me over so I was on my side. Now that I was on my side he pulled my g string away from my pussy and asshole.

He squeezed my ass and slipped his fingers into my pussy. My pussy got wet the minute I heard the front door slam closed. He slipped his fingers in and out of my pussy, getting his fingers wet. Once they were soaking wet, he pulled my ass cheeks apart and pushed his finger into my asshole. I couldn’t see him at all because my head was facing away from him. I could feel his cock now rubbing up against my ass cheeks. He spat on my asshole, and I could hear him stroking his cock. Two fingers pushed deep into my asshole, and he rubbed his hard cock on my wet pussy. Then after a short while he put the head of his cock up against my asshole, rubbing it around and then slowly pushing into my tight little rosebud.. As his cock entered my ass, his fingers rubbed my clit and pussy. His cock felt huge stretching my A hole, it hurt a little and I could barely breathe but it was scary and exciting. His hand roamed around to my tits again and he squeezed them hard, then started gently slapping them. He fucked my ass until I could feel his cum filling me up. As he pulled his cock out, I felt the wet, warm cum spill out also, then his fingers push it back in. His fingers were still covered in the cum, so he started to rub it on my tits and around my mouth, although he did not take out the gag.

He turned me back over and untied the leg restraints. My hands were still tied and my mouth still with gag.

He moved me into doggy position and held the ropes that tied my wrists, he forced my legs open and once again began finger fucking my pussy hole. I suddenly felt his mouth on my asshole and pussy, it felt so good as he tongued me and spat on both holes. He got up and left for a minute then came back, and was behind me… I didn’t know what he went for but I felt something big and hard slide into my pussy but it didn’t feel like his cock.
I couldn’t see what it was but it was quite big and stretched my pussy wide open, he kept spitting on my hole then fucking my pussy with something. He went down and slipped his tongue up my asshole while he was fucking my pussy, it felt so good and I came so hard it hurt. As my pussy squeezed out my love juices his tongue licked them up.

He turned me over again, and then removed the gag from my mouth, before I could speak he shoved his cock into my mouth, I could feel something very wet and warm but it didn’t taste like cum. I realized he was peeing in my mouth, and then when he was done he pushed his balls into my mouth and made me suck them while he masturbated his cock.

Then he turned around and squatted on my face, placing his asshole on my mouth, telling me to tongue it. I pushed my tongue deep into his asshole, and he stroked his cock, I liked the taste of his ass on my tongue. It had a sweet but bitter taste.

Once his cock was fully erect again, he untied my hands and lay me down, forced open my legs and slipped his cock up my wet cunt. He fucked me so hard and one hand squeezed my throat, choking me a little. I could feel the cum building up in him, and when he was ready to cum he pulled out and raised up, still holding my throat but told me to open my mouth as he shot his whole load down my throat and all over my face.

I looked like a sweaty, cum stained mess….And then he lay down beside me, chuckled a little and said “You are such a little freak!”..

I guess he knew me too well, that I would organize some weird and wild sex session.
It was quite the ride, at times I was actually unsure and afraid too. You really have to put your trust in your lover sometimes and give up control.

Fetish, Fantasy… It’s all a means to an end. The end being a tremendous orgasm!

Stay Naughty!

Kisses,
Taylor Wane
www.taylorwane.com

MORE PLACES TO FIND TAYLOR WANE…

SEX SHOPPING- http://www.buytaylorwane.com
AUCTIONS- http://www.taylorwaneauctions.com
MY BLOG- http://www.taylorwaneblog.net

MY SOCIAL NETWORKS.

FACEBOOK http://www.facebook.com/misstaylorwane
TWITTER http://www.twitter.com/taylorwane69
YAHOO GROUPS http://groups.yahoo.com/group/misstaylorwane

MY WISHLISTS-

VICTORIA SECRET

http://www.victoriassecret.com/commerce/wishlist/viewRecipWishlist.jsf?paramKey=572de26c3cee7bec2805662186a4ab

AMAZON

http://amzn.com/w/1LVG0N95WXLGG

Sexual Fetishism. What’s your Fetish?

Sexual fetish-ism, or erotic fetish-ism, is the ‘sexual arousal’ a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation.
The object or situation of interest is called the fetish;
The person who has a fetish for that object/situation is a fetish-ist.
A fetish is an object, not a body part. According to Psychology or psychiatric terminology there is no such thing as a foot fetish. That is called PARTIALISM. This is when a part of the body is extremely important part to achieve sexual arousal. A shoe however could be a Fetish.
What makes a Fetish a Fetish by definition when it interferes with your life. It’s not just something you LIKE to do, but something you have to do. So for example, if you had a Shoe Fetish, then the person could not ejaculate without the Shoe present.
Early psychology assumed that fetish-ism either is being conditioned or imprinted or perhaps the result of a strong emotional, sometimes traumatic physical experience. More than often these experiences were experienced in childhood. However, this is not a hard, fast rule. Sometimes victims of crimes later fantasize about the crime happening to them over and over, for example Rape or a Robbery.

Even something as innocent as seeing a brief sight of something at a vulnerable age or time could leave an imprint in your memory that develops into a fetish. Perhaps it is not a brief moment at all.  Many young men who have been aroused by seeing Cheerleaders during the ball game, or perhaps they get a fixation on a teacher or an authoritative figure and that becomes their obsession or fetish. Men and Women alike

*Alfred Binet suspected fetishism was the pathological result of associations.
Meaning the presence of an object  while simultaneously stimulated may make that object became permanently connection to the persons sexual desires.

ASSOCIATION THEORY makes sense, for example..The first lover you had sex with had jet black hair.  Now you become aroused when you see a women with black hair.

One Gentlemen who spoke to me about his Fetish told of a Young Prostitute he had met while deployed over seas.  She wore bright red, thick lipstick. He never forgot his experience with her as he was so lonely when deployed that she was the only comfort the young man had.  The thought of her became his fixation and for him to obtain an erection and eventually ejaculate he had to have whatever women in his presence wear bright red lipstick or he was not able to maintain arousal.

*The sexologist Magnus Hirschfeld followed another line of thought when he proposed his theory of partial attractiveness in 1920. According to his argument, sexual attractiveness never originates in a person as a whole but always is the product of the interaction of individual features.

*Sigmund Freud, the world renowned Austrian Neurologist who became known as the founding father of Psycho-Analysis believed that sexual fetishism in men derived from the unconscious fear of the mother’s genitals, from men’s universal fear of castration, and from a man’s fantasy that his mother had had a penis but that it had been cut off. He did not discuss sexual fetishism in women.

Common Examples of Fetish’s are;
Body hair, chubby chasers, muscles worship, S & M, golden showers, uniform, piercings, tattoos, rubber, Being bound in Cling film, Latex, Nylons, pantyhose, stilettos, boots, hair, PLUSHIES ( See my role in LOLA’S LOVE SHACK),
Scat, Golden Showers, Diapers, Vomit, being robbed or raped, vampires, cross dressing, asphyxia or asphyxiation, dead bodies, erotic eating or food, enemas, breast milk, squirting, being humiliated, flashing ones genitals in public, inflicting pain on others  otherwise known as Sadism, sleeping or unconscious people, dirty or obscene phone calls and or Language, transvestism, cuckholdism, blood, the idea of being eaten by someone, dressing as a child, buttocks, committing rape or rape fantasy, noses, cars, stealing, crying, being on stage or camera , having an amputation, having sex with someone who has an amputation, spanking or being spanked, realistic dolls or body parts, Hentai (Perverse Anime),  attraction to older men or women, attraction to young men or women, mannequins and many, many, more.

Clothing fetish, or garment fetish, is a sexual fetish that revolves around a fixation upon a particular article or type of clothing, a collection of garments that appear as part of a fashion or uniform, or a person dressed in such a garment.
Common examples of Garment fetish are leather, Latex, Rubber, Military Uniforms, Medical Uniforms, french maid, school teacher, cheerleader, girl scout, fireman, Police Office and more..

Now… What’s Your Fetish?

Many of my movies have involved Fetish or Fetish clothing.
To see me in some of my fetish features check out
http://www.buytaylorwane.com

Movies such as Dirty Deeds, Decadent Desires, Secret Diary 1 & 2, Decadent Divas 19, 20, 21, or my INTERACTIVE SERIES which involves NURSE TAYLOR, FRENCH MAID TAYLOR AND SECRETARY TAYLOR.

I want to know your Fetish.. Share it with me
LIVE ON MY RADIO SHOW
800-774-2388
Sirius/XM 103. BIG TITS AT WORK. Spice Radio
Wednesday 9-11 pm pst.

Kiss,
TAYLOR WANE
WWW.TAYLORWANE.COM
WWW.BUYTAYLORWANE.COM
WWW.TAYLORWANEAUCTIONS.COM
WWW.TAYLORWANEBLOG.NET

WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/MISSTAYLORWANE
WWW.TWITTER.COM/TAYLORWANE69

YAHOO GROUPS

 

Taylor & The Plumber. “In The Heat Of the Moment”.

Taylor and The Plumber
“In the Heat of the Moment”.

It was an unusually hot day in California and the heat appeared to be making everyone a little more stressed or tired than normal. The thermometer read 98 degrees and the air conditioner sounded like it was ready to bust. I had a busy day ahead with work deadlines and other every daily chores that had to be attended to, but that didn’t stop me from feeling the drain of the heat and the overwhelming feeling I needed to take a quick nap. Knowing I had a lot to do and I really needed to be peppy I decided it might be best for me to take a half an hour rest. I slipped out of my clothes and climbed on the bed with only my panties and bra on. It didn’t take long for me to drift to sleep and my mind wondered to a common past time for me- SEX! I was imaging that I was on some beautiful island, close to the beach, the wind blowing passed me softly as I watched the tanned, surfer boys roam around the beach. I was really getting into my dream, feeling the heat of the beach, and getting turned on by those hard bodied surfer boys when a loud banging at the door rudely awaked me. I jumped up dazed and very confused and ran to the door, opening it without even thinking that I wasn’t properly dressed. It seems I had forgotten an appointment with the plumber and there he stood at the door, shocked by my appearance. Embarrassed I invited him in so I could close the door, and lead him to the bathroom in question. I excused myself to put on some clothes and left him with wrench in hand. As I slipped on a pair of jeans I could see in one of my bedroom mirrors that he was watching me, now more awake than I was a few moments ago I noticed that he was not my regular plumber but a really hot, hard bodied guy I’d never seen before. I turned around and asked what his name was. He explained that he was new to the company and new to California. I had to giggle when he said he preferred how liberal the ladies were here, opening the door in their undies, that is. I couldn’t help thinking he looked more like a Chippendale dancer than a plumber and wandered over to talk to him some more. Still aroused from my saucy dream, I was feeling very flirtatious and he didn’t seem to mind one bit. I guess I must have still been a little dazed, as I had totally forgotten I was still standing there in my bra and my nipples were hard, poking through the sheer lacy fabric. I looked down at his crotch and noticed that he seemed aroused by me too. Somehow we began to kiss and I reached down to touch his bulging cock, it felt hard underneath those plumbers’ pants and I couldn’t wait to take a look at it. While I fumbled with his zipper he pulled off my bra and grabbed a handful of tit. His eyes grew wide as he saw how big they looked fully unveiled, and plastered his mouth around one of my erect nipples. I had managed to get his cock out and take a look. It was gorgeous, hard, long and blood engorged and I couldn’t wait to get my mouth around it. I slipped down in front of him and slide his manhood into my wet mouth, taking long, slow strokes I masturbated his cock with my lips and felt it grow even bigger. My pussy was wet just sucking his cock, this was even better than being on that beach watching the surfer dudes. He moaned and groaned as I slipped his cock deep down my throat, massaging it with my throat muscles and tongue. I stroked his balls and fondled them as I sucked his cock harder. I heard him mutter that he wanted some pussy, so I stood up and straddled the toilet. He pulled down my jeans and panties and spread my ass cheeks so he could see my pussy and asshole. I reached underneath and rubbed my clit, waiting in anticipation for his manhood to enter me. He knelt down first and licked my pussy hole to make sure it was juicy and wet before pushing that monster cock deep inside of me, all the way to the balls. I let out a yelp as it hit bottom, but sighed with pleasure as he slide it out and began slowly pumping my wet hole. I could feel every inch of meat slipping in and out of my hot cunt, I rubbed my clit faster and faster and he fucked me harder and harder. I begged for more, and he gave it to me, fucking me while he slapped my ass quite hard leaving my ass cheeks stinging and burning a little. I didn’t mind the stringing pain on my buttock, as I was in an erotic state from his thick, fat, swollen dick spreading my pussy hole. He reached around me and grabbed my tits, squeezing them and kneading them whilst plugging my pussy. I couldn’t help but want to cum all over his cock and cover him in my love juice. “Fuck me harder” I screamed, as I began to climax. As his cock sunk in to me, time and time again, I could feel my cum squirt out of my pussy and down the shaft of his cock. I knew that he would cum soon but I wanted to taste him in my mouth. I got down in front of him and asked if he would give me his cum, I wanted to have his hot jizz in my mouth. He began fucking my mouth, building into his own orgasm. I could hardly breath but I wanted his cum so much. He let out a yell as he exploded onto my tongue, I took every drop of his seed and swallowed it, licking my lips and smiling. At that moment it felt awkward, as I realized I still needed my toilet fixed, so I left the room to let him get on with his job, although it was a nice break to my day and definitely woke me up.

KISSES,
TAYLOR WANE
WWW.TAYLORWANE.COM
WWW.BUYTAYLORWANE.COM
WWW.TAYLORWANEAUCTIONS.COM
WWW.TAYLORWANEBLOG.NET

WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/MISSTAYLORWANE

WWW.TWITTER.COM/TAYLORWANE69

YAHOO GROUPS-

Tonight.. 9pm -11pm pst…
I will be LIVE ON AIR.
SPICE RADIO-SIRIUS/XM 103


1800-774-2388

Taylor Wane – Porn Update

I am so busy working day and night to rebuild TaylorWane.com.
I have taken full control over my site again and I am working very hard at making the best its ever been.
You are going to be very happy with the changes that will be made and available once LIVE.

I am using a content management system that will ensure that updates will never not be made available and everything on the site will be searchable and top quality.

I will be sharing at least 50 brand new Taylor Wane hardcore sets plus my 20 year archive of Taylor Wane movies and photos.
I am so excited about it I can barely sleep at night because I just want to keep working at the site to make it available as soon as possible 🙂

Until then I hope my blog will keep you somewhat tittilated until my site is OFFICIALLY LIVE and ready to view.

There will be so many sexy, hardcore videos of me to view doing all the naughty things you want to see.
Squirting, 3 ways, cat-fighting, cock sucking, girl on girl, Fem Dom, anal play, masturbation and so much more.

Meanwhile, enjoy the blog and don’t forget to tune into my radio show

SPICE RADIO- SIRIUS/XM 103 WED 9-11PM PST. 1800-774-2388
Call in and talk dirty with me or Tune in and get off.

You can check out my merchandise, lingerie and dvds at
www.buytaylorwane.com
www.taylorwaneshop.com

Kisses,
Taylor Wane
www.twitter.com/taylorwane69

Breaking the Boredom- Intimacy wtih your lover should never be anything but #1

There is no doubt SEX/INTIMACY is by far one of the most wonderful, incredible, endorphin providing, emotional and psychological feel good activities of our lives.
In the biological make-up of every human being, Intimacy/Sex is one of the Basic Functions of the human existence. Not only for procreation but also for feeling a sense of security and well being. We not only need to nourish our bodies with food and water, we need to sleep, exercise and to have companionship and love. Many studies have shown that couples who are married or co-habitating are much healthier and happier than their single friends (no matter how much the single folk boast it is soooo great to be single).
Even in our most difficult times we can feel a little better with some intimacy and orgasms, especially with someone we love.

Personally I think the better we know someone and the closer we are with that person the better the sex gets. You know each other, you are comfortable to do and say things that you want (Or hopefully you are!!!). You can explore each others bodies without guilt because this is your partner and your friend.

However, even the closest of people get a sticking point some where along the line. Maybe too many every day problems get their minds all clouded. Even the best of us have to make an effort sometimes to dig ourselves out of the sexual block we can fall into.

I’ve spoken before about how in general people feel that relationships once they are established can go onto auto pilot. This is not true and if you choose to believe that once you are in an established union you don’t have to try anymore or still “court’ your partner then you may run into some intimacy problems or a feeling of dis-connect later in the union.

Everyone desires passion and the feeling of being desired. Even more so by the person they love. It is all too important to express yourself to your partner at all times. Don’t assume that ‘ Well, you know how I feel”. Ok great, maybe they do, but they still want to hear it. They still want to see you make an effort.

So, this brings us to ‘Breaking the Boredom”.
Don’t let the title mis-lead you, I am not suggesting that for one minute that even if you do Missionary every night that you don’t both orgasm and enjoy the sex and I applaud any couple that is having a continuous fulfilling playtime with their lovers.

Don’t forget that every now and then you should mix it up, surprise your lover, do something a little special every now and then, so that you both still get that Adrenaline rush when you know sex is gonna happen 🙂

Sex should never be a chore or a part of the relationship you know you have to do it, so lets get it done and get on with more pressing things like doing the dishes or laundry.

WTF!!! There are other things more important in your relationship than making sure the connection between you are your lover is always #1 on the list!
If you have a strong bond and connection with your partner, then everything else in life will be easier to deal with. It’s when you put that emotional security on the bottom of the things that need to be done in the day that everything else seems harder.

Let’s get to work at making your intimacy #1 on the list.

Ask yourself if you really want your relationship to start to crumble and fall apart. If the answer is NO, then its time to take care of business and ‘court’ your lover continuously throughout the relationship.

It’s so simple….
It takes a little effort and thought. Every now and then a nice dinner somewhere different or special. Flowers or chocolates for NO reason. Buying some lingerie or other sexy items you know he would like and just wearing it out of the blue when he comes home to get his motor running. A trip out of town or stay in a hotel for a night or weekend away from your family so you can really re-connect and be super naughty.

———————————-
THE SCENARIO……

You know your lover well, you know what they like and don’t like (if this is not true, then its time for you to start to get to know your lover!).
So, on the down low, you find out their schedule and then you aline it with yours. You want to be totally alone with them and do Oh so Naughty things 😉
Time is a problem, you both have jobs, kids, and other obligations but you find a weekend that you both have a day/night off and then you go about arranging someone to take care of the kids.

After a little research on the internet you find a cozy little hotel not too far of a drive from home but far enough away that you can’t be tempted to go check on things.
It’s been a while since you dressed up in a sexy outfit for him and remember how hot he would get on your honey moon when you wore bikini’s for the beach.

You find a little Sex store that carries lingerie and swimsuits, Yeah, the kind STRIPPERS WEAR!! Not the full back boring family friendly stuff that ‘Wal-Whateva’ carries. You pick a color you know he will like and find some super sexy heels that might just make this bikini look even better on you!
Then you book the hotel room and tell your man that you have some things you need fixing at the home and to make sure he keeps “that day/night’ free because you really need for him to help you.
On that day you pop out for ‘groceries’ but really drive to the hotel to set the mood and pre-check in.
You make sure you have the right music, booze, candles, massage oil, toys, the bikini and the slutty heels you are going to be wearing.

Once everything is in place in the hotel then you grab the kids and take them to the in-laws or whomever.
It’s now late afternoon and you tell your man that you need help picking things up and he needs to come with you, and you are driving.
BE CREATIVE… Even if you don’t tell lies, use your imagination to get him out of the house, into the car and off to your destination..

Once you arrive outside the hotel you some how get him to go in with you, even at this point you tell him you have a surprise for him.
Once inside, he will get the point. Booze, candles, music…. You tell him to relax on the bed, while you get comfortable. You slip into your bikini and slutty heels and doll up your hair and makeup..

You slink into the room, all sexy and feeling naughty and offer him a drink. You slowly pour the drink, bending over and teasing him in your outfit.
You occasionally give him a little look back while pouring the drink and tell him to get undressed.
With two drinks in hand you slowly walk over to him, using your sexiest, super vixen look you can muster up.
You hand him the drink and ask if he would like a nice massage to loosen him up.
He is laying on the bed, face down and you warm the oil in your hand first then place your hand on his body. Slowly but firmly rubbing his body, his shoulders and back, not speaking, just the music playing softly in the background.
You get into the rhythm of the massage, breathing and stroking him being as sensual as you can.
Every now and then you let your breasts rub up against his back and down to his ass.
Your hands run down his spine, and to his ass cheeks, firmly kneading and massaging them.
Every now and then you plant little kisses on his skin, in between stroking and rubbing him everywhere. You ask if he would like to turn over, and of course he would.
As he lays in front of you and you rub his chest and stomach for a while, you stop to rub some oil slowly on yourself, giving him a little show. Your breasts fall out of the bikini top… OOOPs.. and then you start to use your boobs to rub him all over. As your nipples harden, you run them over his cock, letting him know you are turned on.
You pull your bikini bottom to one side to reveal your pussy. Your oily hands rub your pussy and clit and he is visually aroused. Seeing his hard cock in front of you just makes you want to lick it and suck it. So, you take hold of his cock and start to stroke it with one hand and fondle his balls with the other. His veins swell and his cock is engorged and ready for some action. You run your wet tongue up and down his cock and balls, and then slip it into your warm, wet mouth. As you suck his cock your hands continue to fondle and caress his balls and cock. Your pussy is so wet from seeing how aroused your lover is. You reach down and touch your pussy to find she is dripping. You climb on top of him and slowly lower your cunt onto his hard man meat. Your tits are still out of the top and bobbing back and forth over his face as your pussy masturbates his dick. He grabs your tits and starts to squeeze and suck on them, making your pussy even more wet from the extra stimulation. His cock is penetrating you so deep you start to ooze and squirt all over it, moaning and quivering. You want more, hard, deeper, faster…
So you raise up and then bend over with your ass high in the air, reach back and spread your ass cheeks to let him know you want him to fuck you. “I want your hard fucking cock deep in my wet pussy hole baby”, you tell him…
He grabs your ass cheeks and spreads them wide, aiming his cock for your pink, wet twat hole. As it sinks into your hole, you moan and groan with such pleasure. “Fuck your cock feels so good”, I want it deep baby, fuck me hard, make me scream”.
He sinks that hard man meat into your sopping wet twat, pounding you and fucking you like you both just met.
“Oh, I want it harder, give me every inch of that fucking cock”, you scream…
You reach under neath and start to rub your swollen clit, as he pounds your cunt. You can feel his cock swell as his nuts fill with cum, ready to explode wherever he wants. You rub your clit as hard as you can, wanting to cum as he orgasms.
You can feel it building in his cock as his meat throbs and pulsates. “Yes, fuck me hard baby, fuck that fucking cunt”! You tell him. “I want you to fuck that cunt hole until you squirt every drop of your jizz in your cunt, on my cunt, wherever you want it baby”.
You reach back again spreading your asshole and pussy, so he knows that when he is ready to cum he can just unload that hot, sticky cum all over your pussy hole and asshole. He lets out a deep groan as he pulls it from you and starts to shoot his load on your open wet holes.
You both collapse in a heap of sweat and body fluids….
“Well, we have the hotel and I’ve cleared our schedule so we can do this all night long”, you gush with excitement.

Now, just taking the time to arrange a surprise SEXY ENCOUNTER with your lover, wasn’t that worth it and gives you both something to think about for some time until the next little Intimate Encounter you or he arranges.

Break The Boredom, Keep the Intimacy alive by never putting your relationship on Auto- pilot.

Kisses and Spanks,

Miss Taylor Wane
http://www.taylorwane.com
http://www.buytaylorwane.com
http://www.taylorwaneshop.com
http://www.taylorwaneblog.net
http://www.facebook.com/Misstaylorwane
http://www.twitter.com/taylorwane69

SPICE RADIO- SIRIUS/XM 103.
Wed 9-11pm pst.
LIVE… SEX TALK
1800-774-2388
BIG TITS AT WORK with TAYLOR WANE and Guests…..

Sexual Attraction and How to HAVE BETTER SEX

Taylorwane.com

Miss Taylor Wane

BIG TITS AT WORK

These Big TITS are at WORK!!!

Taylor Wane Soapy Pussy

Taylor Wane Tits

If you have ever wondered why your SEX life has gone to the Dogs or you just can’t get that “loving Feeling” back perhaps you need to do your homework a little more.
Even the act of attempting to find out how to have better sex will create better Sex. One of the Main Methods of having and attaining Better SEX is MORE SEX!
The More SEX you have with your ‘WILLING’ partner, the more all those ‘FEEL GOOD’ Hormones and endorphins release into your brain giving you a sense of well being and happiness. Well yes, those NATURAL, ORGANIC ‘HIGHS’ are Addictive because we want to feel good again. So the more you have SEX with your lover, the more connected and intimate you become with your lover. Just do not forget to be an EQUAL OPPORTUNITY LOVER. ‘GIVE AND TAKE’ is the name of the game to have the best possible love making ever. Be prepared to satisfy your lover and they will want to satisfy you in return. However, there are other problems that can occur. Perhaps your partner has ANORGASMIA -which is the Inability to reach orgasm. There are exercises and techniques to over come this. (listed below).
This article will let you know how to reach your SEXUAL GOALS and heighten the ability to reach the Ultimate Orgasms.
Further Articles will also be posted soon.

If YOU want to have amazing SEX, be educated and prepared to give as much as you take. Don’t forget just because you are a giver and will spend hours GIVING PLEASURE that doesn’t mean your lover is just a TAKER. They may get frustrated if you do not allow them to give back and although you can’t understand why they don’t think you are the greatest lover ever, it might be because it also SELFISH to not allow your partner to LOVE you back and explore your body as they wish.

Psychology is everything when you are dealing with people, so THINK because you STINK (being a bad lover)!
Taylor & Tiffany Share a Cock

GOOD LUCK and feel free to ASK advice.
Kiss,
Taylor Wane
www.taylorwane.com
www.taylorwaneshop.com
www.buytaylorwane.com
www.taylorwaneblog.net
www.twitter.com/taylorwane69
www.facebook.com/Misstaylorwane
TAYLOR WANE YAHOO GROUPS
BIG TITS AT WORK.
SPICE RADIO on SIRIUS/XM 103
Wed 9-11pm pst.
1800-774-2388
CALL IN WITH YOUR STORIES AND QUESTIONS.

STAGES OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION-

There are three distinct types or stages of “love”:
1-Lust, or erotic passion
2-Attraction, or romantic passion
3-Attachment, or commitment (OXYTOCIN-BONDING, The more Sex with that partner the more you bond, VASOPRESSIN – An antiduretic Hormone along with OXYTOCIN interfere with Dopamine and Norepinephrine, which is why passionate love fades as attachment grows).
Endorphins, the body’s natural painkillers, also play a key role in long-term relationships. They produce a general sense of well-being, including feeling soothed, peaceful and secure. Like dopamine and norepinephrine, endorphins are released during sex; and induce a “drug-like dependency.”

*Sexologist John Money draws the line between love and lust in this way: “Love exists above the belt, lust below. Love is lyrical. Lust is lewd.”
Pheromones, looks and our own learned predispositions for what we look for in a mate play an important role in whom we lust after, as well. Without lust, we might never find that special someone. But, while lust keeps us “looking around,” it is our desire for romance that leads us to attraction.

*ATTRACTION-

*ROMANTIC PASSION- overwhelming preoccupation and drive is part of our biology. Researchers say this is due to the dopamine, norepinephrine and phenylethylamine we’re releasing. Dopamine is thought to be the “pleasure chemical,” producing a feeling of bliss. Norepinephrine is similar to adrenaline and produces the racing heart and excitement.
functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) Scans showed increased BLOOD flow in areas of the brain with high concentrations of receptors for dopamine — associated with states of euphoria, craving and addiction. People in this love stage are noted to have lower levels of Serotonin which is found in people with OCD, explaining why they OBSESS about their partner and involve themselves in little else.

*Studies have shown that passionate love fades quickly and is nearly gone after two or three years. The chemicals responsible for “that loving’ feeling” (adrenaline, dopamine, norepinephrine, phenylethylamine, etc.) dwindle.

*YOU MAY WONDER- Why has he or she changed. Actually, your partner probably hasn’t changed at all; it’s just that you’re now able to see him or her rationally, rather than through the blinding HORMONES of infatuation and passionate love. At this stage, the relationship is either strong enough to endure, or the relationship ends.

*If the relationship can ENDURE, other chemicals kick in. Endorphins still provide a sense of well being and security. Additionally, OXYTOCIN is still released during sex and produce feelings of Satisfaction. Vasopressin also continues to play a role in attachment.
THIS IS WHY WHEN COUPLES FEEL THEY ARE GROWING APART, THEY NEED TO HAVE MORE INTIMACY WITH EACH OTHER TO STRENGTHEN THEIR DWINDLING BOND!!!!

Ways to create more INTIMACY!

**BREATHE WITH YOUR PARTNER WHILE CLOSING EYES AND BE STILL AND LOOK AT YOUR PARTNER

**TOUCH OR MASSAGE YOUR PARTNER

**KISS YOUR PARTNER
The Romans even came up with three different categories for kissing:
• Osculum was a kiss on the cheek
• Basium was a kiss on the lips
• Savolium was a deep kiss
HORMONES RELEASED DURING KISSING.
• Oxytocin, which helps people develop feelings of attachment, devotion and affection for one another
• Dopamine, which plays a role in the brain’s processing of emotions, pleasure and pain
• Serotonin, which affects a person’s mood and feelings
• Adrenaline, which increases HEART Rate and plays a role in your body’s fight-or-flight response

**SMELL

**TASTE

** LAUGHTER/HAVING FUN

**GIVING & RECEIVING PLEASURE

**SOUNDS

**MOVEMENT OR INCREASING BLOOD FLOW.

———————————————–

TWO TYPES OF ORGASM IN A FEMALE.
1.CLITORAL ORGASM
2. VAGINAL ORGASM
The nerves that are involved in the two different pelvic areas send different responses to the Brain..

• hypogastric nerve – transmits from the Uterus and CERVIX in women and from the PROSTATE in men
• pelvic nerve – transmits from the VAGINA and cervix in women and from the rectum in both sexes
• pudendal nerve – transmits from the clitoris in women and from the scrotum and penis in men
• vagus nerve – transmits from the cervix, uterus and vagina

SO DURING FOREPLAY OR SEX, IT IS IMPORTANT TO STIMULATE BOTH THE CLITORIS AND VAGINA TO CREATE THE ULTIMATE PLEASURE IN YOUR PARTNER.
A GOOD EXAMPLE WOULD BE THAT YOU WOULD NOT JUST WANT YOUR LOVER TO TOUCH YOUR SCROTUM AND FORGET YOUR PENIS… You probably prefer both stimulated.

EVEN PEOPLE WITH SPINAL INJURIES OR PARAPLEGICS CAN REACH ORGASM, EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE PROBABLY TOLD THEY COULD NOT.

VAGUS nerve in women BYPASSES THE SPINAL CORD, therefore, with DEEP VAGINAL or Cervical STIMULATION, a women could reach orgasm, just not a CLITORAL ORGASM.

———————

Some of the brain areas impacted by pleasure include:
• amygdala – regulates emotions
• nucleus accumbens – controls the release of dopamine
• ventral tegmental area (VTA) – actually releases the dopamine
• cerebellum – controls MUSCLE Function
• pituitary gland – releases beta-endorphins, which decrease PAIN oxytocin, which increases feelings of trust; and vasopressin, which increases bonding

***DURING AN ORGASM In both sexes, the brain region behind the left eye, called the lateral orbitofrontal cortex, shuts down during orgasm. “It’s the seat of reason and behavioral control. But when you have an orgasm, you lose control” Dr. Gert Holstege stated that the brain during an orgasm looks much like the brain of a person taking heroin.

***ALL OF THIS EXPLAINS WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE SEX ADDICTS. These feelings are replicating feelings of EUPHORIA (feeling of happiness or pleasure and well being) similar to Drugs.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN DURING SEX-
When a woman has sex, a part of the brain stem called the periaqueductal gray (PAG) is activated. The PAG controls the “flight or fight” response. Women’s brains also showed decreased activity in the amygdala and hippocampus, which deal with Fear & anxiety. The team theorized that these differences existed because women have more of a need to feel safe and relaxed in order to enjoy sex. In addition, the area of the CORTEX associated with pain was activated to show the difference between pain and pleasure.

———–
ANORGASMIA (the inability to reach orgasm)

SSRIs, or selective seratonin reuptake inhibitors- zoloft, pail, celexa, anxiety drugs. DECREASE THE PRODUCTION OF DOPAMINE. the neurotransmitter that provides pleasurable feelings.

Some studies show that women with ANORGASMIA when giving an MRI of the Brain, showed that the brain actually thinks it is constantly receiving pleasure therefore she cannot reach a state of being that will in fact give her an Orgasm… READING EROTICA can exercise the brain to calm down and act to activity in a different way.

RESEARCH shows that people can infect have Orgasms from being touched in other area’s of the body.

Touching the nipples sends the same messages to the brain as being touched on the genitals. Sometimes also in hands and feet.
HENSE FOOT FETISH and other ‘fetishes’ which are actually completely normal nerve responses but less talked about or even examined or incorporated into sex play…

APHRODISIACS- elements that evoke or stimulate sexual desire.
Foods, drugs (viagra) , scents

TESTOSTERONE in both men and women.

Women (and men) with a higher sex drive have more TESTOSTERONE than a woman or man with Low sex drive.

How it works
A chain reaction begins when something external that we encounter that stimulates us.
A signal is sent from the LIMBIC LOBE of the BRAIN, via the Nervous system to the PELVIC REGION.
These signals tell the blood vessels to dilate. This creates and ERECTION, in both men and women. Penis for a man and clitoris and vaginal region.

Once the ERECTION is produced then the VESSELS CLOSE to maintain the BLOOD in that region. the Erection is accompanied by rapid heart rate. The brain released NOREPINEPHRINE, DOPAMINE, NEUROTRANSMITTERS to tell our bodies this is GOOD!

Alcohol and MARIJUANA also create or allow the desire to have sex.

SOME EXAMPLES OF APHRODISIAC’S.

ANISEED- has ESTROGENIC COMPOUNDS (female hormones) which induce similar effects to testosterone.

ASPARAGUS- high in VITAMIN B known as folate that aids in increasing production of HISTAMINE. Histamine is important for healthy sex drive. Histamine is an organic compound that acts as a NEUROTRANSMITTER. Histamine allows the flow of fluids in the capillaries.

BASIL- known to stimulate sex drive and fertility and a sense of well being. The Scent of Basil is said to drive men wild.

CARDAMOM- Aromatic Spice. Its a powerful Aphrodisiac and can be beneficial in treating IMPOTENCE. Its high in Cineole, which can increase BLOOD FLOW in area’s that it is applied.

CHOCOLATE- Cacao tree is called the FOOD OF THE GODS. Chocolate phenylethylamine and serotonin, which are both “feel good” chemicals. chocolate may also contain substances that have the same effect on the brain as marijuana. The substance is a neurotransmitter called anandamide. The amount of anandamide in chocolate is not enough to get a person “high” like marijuana, but it could be enough to contribute to the good feelings that serotonin and phenylethylamine produce.

CHILI PEPPERS- Eating chili peppers generates physiological responses in our bodies (e.g., sweating, increased heart rate and circulation) that are similar to those experienced when having sex.

Garlic
Long ago, Tibetan monks were not allowed to enter the monastery if they had been eating garlic because of its reputation for stirring up passions. Garlic increases circulation.

LICORICE- was found that the smell of black licorice increased the blood flow to the penis by 13 percent. When combined with the smell of doughnuts, that percentage jumped to 32.

Nutmeg
In ancient China, women prized nutmeg an aphrodisiac, and researchers have found it to increase mating behaviors in mice. There is no evidence to prove the same happens in humans. In quantity, nutmeg can produce a hallucinogenic effect.
MACA. Known as Peru’s Natural VIAGRA. Natural root that enhances strength, stamina, energy, fertility and libido.
Oysters
­Romans documented oysters as aphrodisiacs in the second century A.D. They are known to be high in zinc, which has been associated with improving sexual potency in men. (An additional hypothesis is that the oyster resembles the female genitals.) Recently, mussels, clams and oysters have been found to contain D-aspartic acid and NMDA (N-methyl-D-aspartate) compounds may be effective in releasing sex hormones like testosterone and estrogen.
Papaya
Papaya (like aniseed) is estrogenic, meaning it has compounds that act as the female hormone estrogen. It has been used as a folk remedy in promoting menstruation and milk production, facilitating childbirth and increasing the female libido.
Pine nuts
People have been using pine nuts to stimulate the libido since Medieval times. Like oysters, they too are high in zinc. Pine nuts have been used for centuries to make up love potions. The Arabian medical scholar Galen recommended eating one hundred pine nuts before going to bed.
PUMPKIN SEEDS- High in ZINC essential for sperm production and testosterone in men. Loaded with libido Vitamins an dmin
Water Melon-
can have a Viagra effect on blood vessels throughout the body and may increase libido. contains citrulline amino acid. Citruline is good for the cardiovascular system and helps relax the blood vessels that increase sex drive.

Aphrodisiac Supplements
Arginine
Arginine is an amino acid found in meat, nuts, eggs, coconut milk and cheese. It forms nitric oxide in the body, which increases blood flow to the genitals. Arginine, when combined with other supplements, is said to enhance sexual desire in women.
Epimedium
According to pharmacognosist Albert Leung, Ph.D., and Arkansas herbalist Steven Foster, the epimedium herb has been proven to improve the sexual function of male animals in experiments. It acts somewhat as an androgen (sex hormone) and might stimulate sexual desire in women who are androgen-deficient.
Fennel
Fennel is reported to increase the libido of both male and female rats. Fennel has compounds that mimic the female hormone estrogen. However, in doses greater than about a teaspoon, it can be toxic!
Ginseng
Ginseng is another long-touted aphrodisiac. Recently, the Journal of Urology reported, “the Mean International Index of Erectile Function scores were significantly higher in patients treated with Korean red ginseng than in those who received placebo.” In animal studies, ingesting ginseng doesn’t appear to have an immediate effect on testosterone levels, but the ginseng may trigger other mechanisms that lead to increased performance and libido.
Rhino horn
Rhino horn is primarily fibrous tissue with fairly large amounts of calcium and phosphorus. Since low levels of these minerals can lead to weakness and general fatigue, taking large doses of these elements could increase stamina if levels were low to begin with. It’s understandable, then, how it could have historically appeared to be an aphrodisiac (in addition to its resemblance to an erect penis). People who didn’t have deficiencies of those minerals wouldn’t have seen the same affect.
Spanish fly
Probably one of the most famous aphrodisiacs is Spanish fly. It is made from a beetle that secretes an acid-like juice, called cantharidin, from its leg joints when threatened. Because it would be more difficult to remove just the juice, the entire beetle is dried and crushed to produce the powder. When Spanish fly powder is ingested, the body excretes the cantharidin in the urine. This causes intense irritation and burning in the urogenital tract, which then leads to itching and swelling of the genitals. This swelling and burning was once assumed to be sexual arousal and led to the belief that Spanish fly had aphrodisiac qualities. But cantharidin is highly toxic. The kidneys suffer inflammation as well and can be permanently damaged. Spanish fly can cause severe gastrointestinal disturbances, convulsions and even death.
Yohimbe
Yohimbe is used both as an herbal aphrodisiac and in a prescription drug used for erectile dysfunction in men. It comes from bark stripped from a West African evergreen tree. Yohimbine, the primary active ingredient of yohimbe, blocks alpha-2 adrenergic receptors and increases dilation of blood vessels, which are both involved in achieving and maintaining an erection. The herbal form of yohimbe can be dangerous if taken in the wrong quantities.

SCENTS

Scents
Scents have a powerful affect when it comes to romance. The memory of a scent of a romantic partner can stay with us long after the romance is gone — so much so that when we run across the scent years later, we’re immediately taken back with a flood of feelings and memories. Does that mean that scent is an aphrodisiac?
STUDIES show that the smell of Lavender and Pumpkin Pie increased blood flow by 40 %. And the smell of Licorce combined with the scent of CUCUMBER created the greatest increase in blood flow to the vagina.

SOUNDS
MUSIC- Music can set the mood or destroy the mood. The effective element of music is the memory we associate with it. It is wise to find out what music your sexual partner has a fondness for in a romantic/sensual/stimulating way.

EXERCISE- Not only is it good for your health but its GREAT for your sex life. . According to Discovery Health, the aphrodisiac qualities of exercise are associated with the endorphins that are released in the brain with vigorous activity — like the runner’s high. Endorphins are those “feel good” chemicals. Other aphrodisiac affects of exercise come from exercises that increase blood flow to the genitals. These exercises position the body in various ways that stimulate blood flow and can improve sexual abilities and desire.
EXERCISE AND BUILDING MUSCLE usually increases TESTOSTERONE levels. which means higher sex drive!

Whether they work or not, even if the effects of these aphrodisiacs are a PLACEBO EFFECT. Studies show that just by THINKING about these things and ways to enhance sex WORK! Just the effort you are putting in to make your sex life better means it will be better.

SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE
“Planting a seed” or “Power of Suggestion” comes to mind here. If you gently but repetitively ‘suggest’ something over time it may become so. However, the most effective way of getting what you want is to make someone believe it was their idea all along. REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY works, along with reinforcement and praise. For example you could say
” when I spoke to you a while back and you mentioned _____________, I was just flooded at what an amazing,or exciting idea that was. How do you come up with these brilliant idea’s”. I wish i could think of things like that!.

When you force YOUR idea on someone, it never seems to go over as well as you telling them how AMAZING THEY ARE FOR THINKING OF IT. People LOVE to feel adequate and smart. FEED THEIR EGO’S and you will get what you desire.

so, it is important to FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, however, it is just as IMPORTANT to make your lover feel ‘special and unique”.

Feed your lovers ego and they will love how SPECIAL they feel with you, this in itself is an APHRODISIAC